So I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago.. they couple of weeks before hand my partner was saying we should have an abortion. We argued so much about this. Before we had made the final decision that’s when I miscarried. When I was in the hospital having my miscarriage, he went awol for a few days. We constantly argued. I begged him to be there for me and he couldn’t do it. After a few days he came to me and was ready to support me(I know it was a bit too late at that point) I’ve broke down a few times over the past few weeks and he seems to have done a turnaround and is being there for me.. now he is in a very bad way, and really struggling, he’s running away from me and the situation and breaking down. He says now he regrets even asking me to have abortion and feels like I had the abortion because of the stress he put me under. He’s not a big talker on a deep level so it’s really hard to get into his head. I know this is breaking him right now and I don’t know how to help him. Any advice would be much appreciated
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Partner blaming himself
Jenn12445 · 19/11/2023 13:15
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