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Missed miscarriage

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Njb2023 · 20/10/2023 14:48

Hi All, so back in November 22 I went for my 12 week scan to find baby had died and confirmed MMC. I was devastated, but I had medical management and thought that was the end of it once passed. I ended up with a womb infection a week later so felt like another kick in the face. I waited a few months before trying again to allow my body to heal etc, I caught pregnant again in June of this year. All was going well or so I thought, to go for a scan at what should have been 13+4 to find another MMC! Such bad luck, so I was going away the week after my scan and hospital said would be fine and booked me for a repeat scan the following friday. I came back and the morning I was due my scan I hemmoraghed on the toilet at home, passed out 3 times and rushed to hospital. This has obviously terrified me as my 5yr old saw everything and thought I was going to die and emotionally and physically I don't think I can go through it again. It took me a while to conceive my first but had a really easy pregnancy. In between my first mmc and the second I was diagnosed with suspected adenomyosis but awaiting referral. Though never had symptoms it comes with til after my miscarriage. I mentioned it at my last booking app and the midwife didn't seem concerned. I have had follow up bloods this week 8wks on from hemmorhage and i asked them to check everything. All normal apparently except iron which I expected after the blood loss. I'm not really sure what I'm asking for here, just some hope or success stories from people having gone through similar, I want to try again but also terrified of it happening again and my body allowing me to go through the motions to find out my baby died weeks ago - any advice much appreciated x

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