I had a missed miscarriage nearly 15 weeks ago, medical management (did not work) then a d&c. After no period for 11 weeks I knew something wasn’t right. I was very unwell and felt no one was listening. After pushing the doctors and hospital they finally scanned me and found I still had retained products of conception. I refused another d&c as terrified of ashermans syndrome and them not removing everything again. So I opted for the ‘safer’ of my two choices.
Today I underwent my hysteroscopy which they said went very well and everything has now been removed.
However no one really gave me any information on where to go from here.
When is safe to start trying again for a baby? I don’t want to risk in any way me doing something that could end in a miscarriage again.
I want to start trying as soon as possible, but what is recommended?
this really has been the most traumatic and heartbreaking experience and emotionally I am so drained. I have 3 months pregnant and then 4 months trying to grieve whilst not being able to fully move on. 7 months of my life just wrapped up in grief. I want to start this positive journey forward but im so terrified that even if I do fall pregnant again it will be clouded with such fear and trauma. I honestly applaud anyone who has been through this, and survived this more than once. You are stronger than I feel.