@Esnjim I'm really surprised you've not got any monitoring, perhaps my team were over cautious? Im in Manchester. The surgery was early March in the end, and I had weekly blood tests until the hcg was less than 5 and weekly scans as well to check the scar until early April and then two weekly until I was finally discharge from them mid May.
The advice not to try again for 6 months post surgery was from the scar ectopic consultant, and the advice to leave it a year came from the debrief of my last second trimester loss which was also mid May so at that time I had 2 obstetric consultants. I didn't say before but I had 2 second trimester losses prior to the section scar ectopic.
I don't think I had any different treatment from the other miscarriages though, the team were very much focussed on the ectopic. In terms of diagnostics for the scar ectopic, I had 2 scans with the consultant obstetrician and an MRI to confirm that the pregnancy wasn't viable and was absolutely on my scar - at that point the baby had a heartbeat so perhaps they were reassuring me that I wouldn't be able to keep baby?
@Teenar yes I did, whilst still being treated for the scar ectopic I was told if I chose to have another baby to call them and they would do a scan to check the location of baby. I had a scan at 5 weeks to confirm in the correct place this time.
It's so isolating and really scary, that's why when I saw I'd missed this in august I'd still share my story in case it helps someone else in time. I couldn't fine anything and I searched for weeks. I was spending hours reading obscure research papers!! The terror of going in for surgery knowing they had prepped me for a hysterectomy in case of the blood loss was awful. I've not completed my family, and it was just such a lonely place.
Ask any questions, I hope you we all get the babies we want xx