I just wanted to show the tattoo me and my fiancé got for our baby. We had the tattoo a month ago now, we got the tattoo on the day we was suppose to be going for our gender scan, instead we got a tattoo in our baby's memory. I went for a scan at 11+6, after some extremely light brown spotting, that was on the Saturday, I had my scan on Monday and they told us there was no heartbeat and baby had stopped growing st 8 weeks and 3 days. We had seen our sweet babies heartbeat 4 weeks earlier beating away with their little nubs for arms and legs. It was kind of like false hope to see our baby there never in a million years did we think this would happen after seeing the heartbeat, but unfortunately it does happen. To say it was a shock is an understatement. We cried and cried and cried, we went home and I miscarried that night (on my 27th birthday). There has been a lot of crying & pain, but I can think about our baby now without bursting into tears - or I can tell people what happened without crying. Altho when I go into the nursery (it has a crib, all the clothes we bought) it is like a stab in the chest. We get married in a few months so are putting TTC off until after the wedding now. I'm so sorry to anyone who's been through this. This is the song we have dedicated to our baby - bigger than the whole sky - Taylor Swift. It really does capture the feelings when going through a miscarriage, when I first heard the song I thought I pray I never have to relate to this song, and a few months later I did and here I am with the lyrics tattooed on me. Sorry for such a long post.