Hi guys i previously had 2 miscarriages and then 2 beautifully daughters. My youngest is 11months im still bf so i have irrgular periods atm. On saturday 7th jan i found out i was pregnant which was very unexpected as i am taking birth control anyway me and my partner were really happy i randomly decided to do a test as i had started getting pregnancy symptoms vomiting etc. Anyway that joy was short lived we found out at 6am and at 10am i started to get spotting.
Starting of as brown spotting and then went on to be light pink which i thought maybe its just spotting and nothing major i had no pain etc and pregnancy test was dark.
By evening i was full on bleeding so i rang the early pregnancy unit to be told that without a refferal from the docter they were unable to check me. It being the weekend the gp surgery shut i rang out of hours and was told the docter would ring me back in the next 2 hours and after asking my symptoms etc i was advised not to go to a&e because i wasnt "bleeding that heavy"
Well i stayed up most of the night waiting for a phone call by 4am i was feeling so weak i was unable to sleep i had to change into an adult diaper as the bleeding was getting so heavy i have heavy periods but this was way more so i decided to ring out of hours again to which i was told to wait for a docters call. I then fell asleep and when i woke up at 9am sorted childcare for my daughters and i decided to just go to a&e i was there for 1 hour
The nurse didnt even bother to check my urine sample she didnt check my blood pressure nothing she just said its most likely a miscarriage and to go home and do a test after 2 weeks and if its still positive to then see my gp to which i just started crying i was at this point really tired unable to walk properly i told her i felt really weak and i was loosing so much blood she said i wasnt loosing enough i feel like she was being so judgemental she asked me why i got pregnant when i have 11month old and if this is what i had expected she then called a docter and he suggested a blood transfusion and told her to check my blood pressure to which she said weakness could be low iron and that is a gp problem and told the docter i had my "hands full with a toddler and infant" and i am breastfeeding so obv i would be tired. Well at that point i didnt even bother fighting i just feel so let down i just cried and left and now im at home and i feel awful.