Baby’s heart stopped

[Tweetypie27]

Have posted a few threads on here as I’ve been in limbo for weeks with this pregnancy. Last week they saw HB today we went and the baby died sometime this week. My partner broke down crying I have three children from previous marriage and one together she is two.
We both wanted this baby so we’re heartbroken it was worse seeing him upset he was so upset.
Ive been sent home to consider my options and as it Xmas I’m going to wait it out for a week so I’m here for the kids.
He already wants to try again I’m 36 now and have four healthy kids and already felt I was pushing my luck having my little girl.
You take for granted having a healthy baby this is my third MC I’ve had one in between the older kids but not a missed one they just came away on their own.
I feel pregnant and look a bit pregnant I would be 10 weeks now but the baby didn’t grow past 7 .
Its the most empty feeling but I don’t want to do this again I feel I can’t we have one together who is amazing and healthy.
Anyone else feel like this ? Spent the whole day crying on and off I’m so sad.

So sorry for your loss, I have just had a loss at 13/14 weeks, it was a missed miscarriage and I found out baby’s heart had stopped at a scan after some v light bleeding. I have 2 other children and can relate to what you are saying about feeling you are pushing your luck, but also really want to try again. I had surgical management a week ago and still feeling very tearful. Hope you’re ok ❤️

So sorry to hear it really is a horrible thing to go through. From my past miscarriages only thing that helped was another pregnancy looking back. I don’t want to rush into that again though I honestly don’t want to ever go through this again 😪
your in my thoughts xxx

I’m so sorry. It’s such a hard, sad thing to go through. I lost a baby at 12 weeks, though I think it had stopped growing at around 10 weeks as that’s when my symptoms stopped. I knew something was wrong but when the bleeding started it still hit me like a truck. Cuddling my little boy helped so much, though. I hope you can enjoy Christmas with your wonderful children and that you and your partner find happiness again soon.

Thankyou reassuring words. Don’t know what’s up with my tonight I had a TV scan today when o got back I started aching from head to foot now k have a fever and aching all over don’t know it’s it’s related to the MC or I’ve caught something.
i have bad health anxiety so scared I have sepsis or something can that happen right away ? Sorry for going off topic but currently in bed and can’t get up tbh 🥺

That sounds awful. Have you called 111? I know infection is a risk with incomplete miscarriages, but I don’t know if it’s also a concern before the miscarriage has begun. Worth speaking to a doctor about, though, just in case. Poor you. Not what you need.

Hi no I didn’t call them as I think it’s just a bug or virus the fever has gone off this morning so weird but I don’t feel 100% myself today weak and shakey this is the worst Xmas I’ve ever had :-(