Struggling with christmas

[MrsF111]

I’m sure there are lots of us in this boat of dreading Christmas, recently had my third mc, should have been 4 months and I really thought this Christmas was going to be different, feeling so overwhelmed with the grief of it all. My first loss would have been nearly 2, how different my life would have been 💔💔💔💔

Evening I do find Christmas a weird time of year. I don't know why though.
I'm sorry to hear about your losses, this time of year can really amplify how you feel good and bad emotions. Hope you have some good support behind you. All the best.

I'm really struggling today as well.. miscarried in October at 6 weeks and it's all coming back a bit. Hugs to you x

So sorry to everyone who is finding this weekend difficult. I was expecting to be pregnant at Christmas but sadly after two miscarriages this year I am not. Hoping you all manage to find some peace tomorrow ❤️

I'm in the same boat OP, I should be giving birth next month. Sending love and hope to everyone who is suffering after a loss x

Also over here in the club! Should have either a baby who is a few weeks old or announcing our pregnancy to everyone today (it's the 25th already on this side of the planet). Instead I am pretty sure I am about to get my first post mc period.
Here's hoping 2023 brings us all what we want. Wishing us all a peaceful day with some nice moments.

I’m so sorry, OP, and to all mums who’ve lost. I’ve lost 4 - 3 to mc and 1 at 24 weeks. My oldest would be 14 months. My big girl we lost would be 9 months. And if I’d gotten pregnant when we started trying (like everyone I blo*dy know) my baby would be 2 years 9 months. I miss them all. All four, and my oldest ghost child I wish I’d had. Christmas is rubbish x

@MrsF111 sorry to hear of your losses ❤ sending hugs x
I miscarried last year 😪

Thank you so much for all the messages on here, sorry we are all in the same boat. I hope everyone managed to have an alright day, after a good cry in the morning I drank and ate everything and did actually have a nice time with family. Hopefully 2023 brings us all our rainbows ❤️