I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago, I would have been 10 weeks. It happened naturally at home and all seemed to be progressing on its own.. The day after I miscarried, I had a private scan booked (previously booked) as I had had spotting and wanted reassurance but the scan confirmed that there was no active fetus and they could see lining.
I called the EPU who advised me to stay home where I was comfortable which I agreed with. They advised to test again in 3 weeks and if positive or still bleeding to contact them. I have regularly tested and after 3 weeks, still getting positives and light bleeding. I have also been getting some stabbing pains, nothing extreme but nothing I've felt before. Called the EPU who advised to test again at 4 weeks.
I am just wondering, why bother tell people to call back if still positive at 3 weeks only to be fobbed off for another week. Surely if they are not going to do anything and it's possible to go longer, you just say 4 weeks from the get go? Doesn't make sense to me. I would have thought there would be clear guidelines.
I guess I'm frustrated as this 3 week thing was a marker in my mind and now feel like I don't know when this will be done.