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My Experience using Misoprostol (for missed miscarriage)

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Joonbug23 · 06/12/2022 12:14

Hi all
I have recently gone through the experience of using Misoprostol to bring on my missed miscarriage.
When I was deciding the right path for me after finding out my baby had stopped developing, I was struggling to find first-hand, real and honest experiences of using misoprostol. There was a lot of info out there on the NHS website (and similar) about the generic 'period pains & bleeding' but barely anything about real experiences. So when I went through it, I vowed to write my experience somewhere online for other women to read. Not to say you'll have the same experience, but just as a reassurance that another human has been through this and you are not alone.

I am 25, healthy, and active. I had the awful experience of finding out at my 12 week scan that i had a 'missed miscarriage'. To be honest, I did not know that this could even happen. My baby had stopped developing at 9 weeks, and i had no signs, no warning, no symptoms that it had died. The news was a complete shock. I got sent home with a leaflet of info about the 3 ways in which the baby would need to come out of me. Expectant management, Medical Management, or Surgical Management. For me, medical management was the right option as it gave me more control.

I returned to hospital a few days later for a blood test and to pick up my prescription of Misoprostol.

I had anti-biotics to take 2 hours before i started the treatment, so i took these at 12pm on Friday. I then settled on my bed (with snacks, tv, blankets etc) and inserted the Misoprostol tablets into my vagina as directed at 2pm. I laid still and relaxed as directed for 1.5 hours on my bed. I begun to get some mild, period-like cramps around 4pm.

I then made my way down to the sofa (with said blankets etc) and relaxed here, waiting for my husband to return home from work.

5pm, my husband made a light dinner for us (snacky food, chicken nuggets, chips, pizza) as I didn't want to sit with a full plate in front of me. Cramps were geting stronger, more of a constant cramp along the front of my stomach. Nothing overly painful (I hadnt taken any painkillers).

5:30pm, bleeding started. Had some large clots to start with heavy period-like bleeding. Same crampy feeling, nothing overly painful, no painkillers taken.

10pm, my husband and I went up to bed. Still heavy, period-like bleeding and cramps. Not overly painful - took 2 paracetamol before bed and fell straight asleep.

1am, woke up with intense contractions. These lasted about a minute or 2 at a time and came in waves. Could almost sleep inbetween contractions, but when contracting, it was very painful. I took 2 codeine tablets. Heavy period-like bleeding, some clots.

1:45am, after laying in bed, breathing through contractions for 45 minutes, mid-contraction i felt a 'pop' high inside my vagina. Immediately after this pop, the contraction stopped. I went straight to the toilet where I bled, a lot! It poured from me (for a very short time) before I passed 2 very large clots - I didnt look at these too much so thats all i can say about that. I stayed on the toilet (as i was bleeding heavily) for around 45 minutes-1hour.

2:45am, I sat in bed eating popcorn (i felt exceptionally hungry). I then went to sleep with my alarm set for 1 hours time (i was scared of bleeding through pads etc).

4am, woke again in lots of contraction pain, on and off in waves. Went to the toilet, bleeding very heavily, changed pad etc, took some painkillers and returned to sleep.

5am, same as 4am.

6:30am, same as 4am.

7:30am, same as 4am. Passed another large clot/thing. Fell into the toilet so didn't see size etc.

9:45am, woke up having lots of contraction pain. Probably less intense than 1am. Still painful. Felt dizzy when standing and faint. Husband brought me a bacon sandwich and coffee in bed which I ate. Relaxed in bed for a while then moved downstairs to sofa.

11:45am, very painful contractions, felt very very nauseous. Didn't want to move off the sofa, stomach pains when standing, pelvis felt exhausted. This continued throughout the day.

4pm, starting to feel much better, lots less pain, probably mild-period pain now. No contractions, nausea disappeared and hunger begun. My husband picked us up beige chinese food (thats all i fancied) but i ate lots which helped.

10pm, chilled out all evening on sofa, drank lots of water and ate snacks. Very tired so went to bed. Still heavy bleeding all day, much much heavier than period.

9am Sunday, felt much better. Light period pains, but still bleeding heavily. Went over to a friends house for a chilled out roast dinner and TV day with our husbands. This helped take my mind off everything :)

9pm Sunday, needed to ' use the toilet ' for the first time in a few days. Bowel movements were putting pressure on pelvis area so were causing quite bad pain. after using the toilet, had a lot of pain from pressure and movements 'disturbing the peace'. Took painkillers and went to bed shortly after.

7am Monday, mild period pains only, still heavy bleeding (more like a period again now). Hurts to stand up for too long so took it easy this morning and went to work for a short time in the afternoon (im a self employed beautician).

7am Tuesday (Today) , mild period pains, bleeding is starting to get lighter now, so would compare to medium flow. Boobs feel sore (hormone changes i would imagine), very tired but will be doing a full afternoon at work today.

From here, i believe everything will be getting better day-by-day. Going to take a pregnancy test after 10 days, again at 2 weeks and again at 3 weeks (if not showing neg). Hopefully negative will show soon, and then i will begin Ovulation tests to try and get back into tracking my cycle. Then to TTC again as soon as we can.

Everyones experience will be completely different, but i just hope that this helps somebody who was in my (clueless) position before i begun my Medical Miscariage.

Best of luck to all you amazing, strong women who are wanting to start families. You are never alone.

OP posts:
xylophone · 08/12/2022 19:13

Thank you for writing about your experience. I am sorry you went through that. I hope you are feeling better, day by day. That sounds like a really tough process to go through, physically, let alone emotionally.

I was searching Mumsnet for information as I had a scan this morning and was told I’ve had a missed miscarriage (a bit earlier than you). I have an EPU appointment tomorrow, I’m going alone as my partner is away so I wanted to know what options might be discussed. This has been helpful, thank you.

Very best of luck TTC.

hopefullsosbry · 05/01/2023 00:59

Hi, just read your message, thanks for sharing, I have also just found out that at 9 weeks my baby stopped growing. I have the tablets there to take in the morning, I am very apprehensive about this and reading your message has given me a better understanding of what is in store for me .. thanks again

Shelkie36 · 13/01/2023 12:52

Thank you for sharing your experiences - I am truly sorry for your loss, it is the most heartbreaking experience to go through.
I went through the medical management process a few days ago after a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks - pregnancy started developing at about 7 w 4 d.

I had light brown spotting for about a week around Christmas then saw a tiny clot one morning so went for a scan where they confirmed the sad news. Natural management seemed like the best option at first but as nothing happened for days I decided to opt for the meds in the end.

I was very nervous but finally inserted the pills Sat at around 11 am. Apart from a few light cramps no bleeding or major progress for the next 3-4 hours so I ended up using all 6 misoprostol tablets. Then at around 6 pm that night, the heavy flow and passing of the tissue started, soaking 2 maxi pads every hour for about 3 hours, then finally a bit after midnight it started to ease up a bit.

The bleeding continued to be heavy but the cramps were not too bad until the next evening when I had really strong, labour-like pain and had to take a codeine pill. Since then a few more crampings came but were less and less painful, and each time a medium size clot passed. 7 days into the process the bleeding is really fading and things are calming down in general. I also experienced numbness and slight discomfort in my pelvic, rectal, and lower back area.

One thing to note is I still feel weak and sleepy and sadness still comes in waves - guess due to hormonal changes. I started doing short yoga sessions, basically very low-intensity body focus minutes, and during those exercises, my tears are just unstoppable which feels very cleansing. Great for emotional release.

All my heart's best wishes to all of you who have been going through this. I keep telling myself that if our amazing bodies know how to manage a whole pregnancy, it also knows how to rebound after a loss. Best wishes, queens!❤

hopefullsosbry · 13/01/2023 15:37

sorry you had to go through all this .. your lovely words at the end of the message are very uplifting, thanks .. we are all very strong and amazing woman for going through such a horrible experience and and getting back up there again, this was sadly my 2nd MMC, 4th miscarriage altogether but I will still continue to try .. love to everyone 💖

Kdramafan · 03/06/2023 23:41

I was 17+6 when I found out my baby's heart stopped and baby weighed only 47 grams extremely tiny extremely painful went in hospital because I didn't liked the cramps I had for around 3 hours was medically induced to start labour and didn't had to push as baby made its way through it in its own it's kind like popped out after midwife did vaginal examination and it's funeral on Tuesday the sixth it is painful yes it's been 1 month now I had very light spotting for nearly two weeks and I am wondering when I will start next period Also I lost 800mls blood during delivery and was taken 9 bottles of bloods for postpartum tests and are on low iron levels taking some iron tablets anyone here with this experience about when I can expect the next period as I want to start journey for baby number 4 as my two ds they were over the moon when we told them and I am also feeling kinda empty without my little angel who is going to heaven soon.

hopefullsosbry · 06/06/2023 22:32

@Kdramafan so sorry you have gone through this ! It must have been very emotionally hard and still will be. After my miscarriages my period came pretty much within the usual time but I was only 10/11 weeks .. you may take longer as you were further on in pregnancy? Do you usually have regular periods ? All the best for Tuesday. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy next time ! Have you been checked for a reason for miscarriage ? Or did you get any reason why it may have happened ? I found out after 4 I have ‘sticky bloods’ a blood clotting disorder which can hinder baby implanting and getting enough oxygen etc to baby though placenta .. may be worth getting checked for ? Take care xxx

Kdramafan · 11/06/2023 18:19

Hi thank you yes thankfully my period came and I have regular periods and funeral was very hard I was trying to be strong and not to cry but I did cry as soon as we reached the crematorium and I am still waiting for postmortem results let's see what they say

hopefullsosbry · 11/06/2023 22:27

So sorry, you are very strong for going through this. We had our baby, that we passed through miscarriage, examined and it came back as triple X syndrome. It would have been a girl. It’s heartbreaking but in a way it’s good to know the reason also as it’s so easy to blame yourself or think it was something that you done when it’s most likely out of our hands and was nothing at all we could do to change the outcome. I really am sorry for your loss and hope you are ok , and have a good support network around you, am here if you need to chat xx

Kdramafan · 12/06/2023 09:50

My baby was also girl . Unfortunately I was given aspirin in this pregnancy because I mentioned that I had some BP issues at the end of pregnancy but my obstrician kept me in hospital for a night and in the morning BP was normal so I could go home also my urine had protein in it but obstrician wasn't that concerned he said sometimes these things happened because pregnancy is nearly ended.after taking aspirin I started to feel extremely hot have very bad headache nosebleeds and had a very bad rash on neck which disappeared only when I delivered the baby and doctors won't agree that aspirin has caused this as at my 12 week scan I saw baby even sonographer said that's a very active baby and I was eating well but baby weighed only 47 grams which is unbelievable I was constantly eating to make sure baby can grow I even stopped drinking caffeinated tea I went in deccafinated which tasted disgusting but I did all I could for the best for baby so yes I believe aspirin has caused the problems because I did my own research which said that aspirin can interfere with placenta and can cause some issues like increased blood flow which can cause discomfort in baby and eventually baby's heart can stop and lead to poor growth.

Kdramafan · 12/06/2023 10:02

It's not that I moved on from it but I would like to try for another pregnancy because I feel like there is hole in my heart and to be honest I want it to be girl so somehow I could feel that she has come back to us but also I don't care the gender as long as it healthy baby also I don't care if it c sector normal of course c section wouldn't be the best option as I already have two and you can't do most of the things for first 3 months which isn't very good as my two boys require my cooking but yes it's a very strange feeling the more I think about it the more I want to be sad so I am trying not to think about it and one thing I k EDTnow for sure even if I did become pregnant I will have the anxiety and insecurities about the baby and I won't feel at peace once I hold the baby in my hands and see it breathing normally and everything as normal newborn baby should be
. hopeful do you have any children apart from this pregnancy that sadly didn't last?

StacePace · 10/07/2023 14:05

Really sorry to hear about these loss stories. I too have just gone through a mmc. I was just over 11 weeks when i started to have brown spotting. No cramps but was taken in for early scan (before 12 weeks) and told that i had actually mascarried at about 5/6 weeks. Madness really as i had sickness, my tummy was growing and tender larger breasts etc. Had to have bloods taken then again 2 days later. To which i was called back into hospital on a Sunday after giving blood in morning, to be told could be ectopic so wanted to check me over again. Internally my cervix was closed but by scans looked like sac was definitely in the right place. Had to wait 1 week for another scan to be told inevitable that sac there ( and still grown) but no baby :(. All week i had convinced myself i would go for D&C but when came to it thought i could be that 1 in 500 that will have damage of some sort - so opted for pills. Told to get a bottle of wine lol. Well i don't know if it was my body finally accepting but I had planned to take pills later in day before dinner, when i got home from picking my little one up from school, i could feel some pains etc coming. Decided i would take pills still as i wanted to make sure to pass the empty sac. I took the pills about 4pm and by 4:30 i was calling my chap to come home ASAP as i was in agony! I can honestly say i have never experienced pain like this. My daughter was c section so never experienced Labour before. Sad to go through it knowing nothing to hold at end of it but I got through it! Vile experience. Glad not everyone has so much pain but i can honestly say between the sick, the other end (TMI) and the pain, i was a rocking, shaking, sweating mess. I did know it was coming and spoke to a friend who had gone through it in January. She has 3 natural births and said this was the worst experience - pain wise! By 11:30 i fell asleep and when i woke i was feeling lots better. Heavy bleeding and passed a few large clots in night. Im still tender and bloated. Just feels like heavy period now with standard period pains.

Looking forward to body healing so i can try again for baby 2. I think honestly bets policy and for me it really was horrific but like i said, i got through it! You do get through it. Its so tough. emotionally and mentally but we get through it! Good luck to anyone4 else going through this tough time. Loss is crappy no matter what stage. Just know you're not alone and sharing helps. Really helped reading these storied for me.

Lemonvalley · 10/07/2023 15:06

Really sorry for everyone as well. I completely agree with the OP that it is so hard to find actual detailed accounts of what we should expect once the miscarriage process is under way. I found the same thing- was given vague info about it being “like a period”, cramping for “a day” and this was completely inaccurate. I was going to take the misoprostol on the Monday when the women’s clinic was open again but in the meantime my body decided to undergo what I can only describe as a vicious ‘evacuation’ itself. I agree that the pain is bad, and I was surprised by that. It was nothing like a period, and more like early labour. I gave birth to my four year old daughter without any drugs and I would say that phasing my twelve week pregnancy was probably approximately equivalent to 3-4 cm dilation in early labour. They were definitely contractions I felt as the cervix was dilating and the uterus was contracting to expel the baby. It honestly makes me wonder why the medical system hasn’t identified that miscarriage is more of a birth process than a period for some of us.

Lemonvalley · 10/07/2023 15:07

#passing my pregnancy, not phasing!

hopefullsosbry · 10/07/2023 22:23

@Kdramafan hi, sorry for late response, I had a 2nd test for sticky bloods which just came back negative .. so looks like I don’t have this anymore ? They did say it can come and go ? It’s so confusing. Yes I have a daughter who is 21 now , I had her when I was 19 to a different partner. Would love another but if it doesn’t happen then it’s just not meant to be , it’s just strange what the problem could be ?

Kdramafan · 14/07/2023 07:28

So sorry for you all just stay strong and yes the medicine does give you very bad contractions had two previous 2 c section so I haven't experienced before wanted to experience natural birth but this time it was so traumatic that I am regretting why I even wanted the natural birth.

Lemonvalley · 14/07/2023 16:19

@Kdramafan yes, it is traumatic. Sorry you’ve suffered it too… The fact that we know our baby has died and our pregnancy has ended, has us in a state of grief, shock and trauma. We are passing the remains of what would have been our baby and that is traumatic. Labour is different because we are charged with different emotions- purpose, hope, determination. It’s much different emotionally. It will take us time to get over everything we have been through.

Kdramafan · 14/07/2023 17:31

I will always miss out little angel who has gone too soon it's been last month that she had her funeral it was heartbreaking but I do want to try for other child even I already have two because I have this hole in my heart like something is missing ofcourse I won't forget her but I think if I have a baby it will help me cope with the loss maybe not completely but somehow it will make me feel better.Still waiting for results from hospital and even if I did become pregnant on future I will be anxious untill I don't hold the baby in my arms and beyond that I will be worried about it if it's healthy and all but all we can do is just hope for better.And keep trying so stay strong.

Lemonvalley · 16/07/2023 05:56

@Kdramafan i understand and feel the same way. It’s been less than 3 weeks for me and still feels very raw. Even when it fades, Something will always be missing, like you said. My daughter doesn’t have any siblings and I’m 44. even though I conceived my baby easily, time is not on my side and I will probably never be able to give her a baby sister or brother. Yesterday she had me dancing and I was happy for a minute, but then she started holding and kissing one of her dolls, and I felt that stab in my heart. She was kissing a plastic doll, but she almost had a baby sister. I think the pain and loss and longing will always be a part of us. But if you can go on to have another baby, I agree, it will help to heal that broken part.

Kdramafan · 16/07/2023 10:15

Lemon valley I completely understand how you are feeling and 3 weeks it's nothing you need to take time to heal and what you are experiencing right now I went through the same because my boys kept on asking about what has happened to Baby and I just couldn't talk about it I felt same pain like you said like something is stabbing your heart so I looked away and tears appeared and I even couldn't spend time with them because looking at them they reminded me of what I lost but I pushed myself and I tried to kept myself engaged in something else like listening my favourite music or doing household stuff which I didn't even like just to keep myself busy.And keep faith in him I know it's hard because you feel like you are betrayed but maybe there is still Chance that you can have another baby.Its been 3 months now and I am getting better I still miss our little girl but one thing made me feel at peace that she isn't suffering anymore and I am hoping for that I still have Chance to give my boys sibling.All I can say is pray and stay strong.I know it's impossible but God has created us in such way that he will give you power to cope with this.It is very hard and everybody goes through different phases when grieving there is no right or wrong way

Kdramafan · 16/07/2023 10:22

I am still waiting for postpartum results to see what they say if I can still hope.Because I am scared which is natural and It was extremely hard to see such a small baby on my chest lifeless I think that whoever has gone through this they can never forget.Just pray for her soul and think that she might have been your guardian angel holy little soul.

Kdramafan · 16/07/2023 10:42

I know my username says otherwise but I am not Korean I just became fan of them drama series around 2 years ago and this is why I choose this name.

Lemonvalley · 29/11/2023 12:26

@Kdramafan I really thank you from the bottom of my heart, for your beautiful words of empathy, love, and hope.
I am sorry that I have taken months to return to this forum. It’s taken me a long time to process this grief, and I am still going. My heart hurts for your tragic loss, and I pray that you are blessed again.
Thank you for your heartfelt reminder to place my faith in God. I need to be brave enough to do that again, and it was like you knew that. Love and best wishes.
Btw, I do think of her as my guardian little angel. She was conceived for a reason. Just as your precious angel was. My beloved old dog died 7 days after my miscarriage and I believe this also happened for a reason, and a special one.
I have had months of catching viral illnesses one after the other and haven’t TTC again but I am beginning to feel like its my heart and my mind that are the reason for this, not my body. I need to open my heart again to risk, and faith. Maybe my body will follow…
Love and thanks.

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