Hi everyone!
I'm 35, and looking for some advice, as my AMH and follicle count has massively decreased this year, and I am trying to figure out when to time egg freezing given my recent lifestyle and levels of stress. This year I have miscarriages, and then my long term relationship ended very recently. I now feel strongly I need to preserve my fertility, but don't know what to do.
I had my AMH in April, it was 7pmol/L. I then had my follicles counted in July, there were 18.
Then in July I finally got pregnant after 2 years of trying, and ended up miscarrying in September at 10.5 weeks.
I was super stressed and upset for a while after the miscarriage. Since the miscarriage I have also eaten a bit less healthy, done less yoga, and less relaxation, and also on 3 occasions drunk 3-4 large glasses of wine. Prior to the pregnancy this year I'd lived an extremely healthy lifestyle, minimising stress and not drinking at all.
Now my long relationship ended a couple of weeks ago, and this has been also extremely upsetting and stressful.
I then got my AMH done again - it has dropped in 7 months to 2.7pmol/L. I also had a follicle count done a couple of days ago, and they could only see 5. This is a huge huge drop in a really short amount of time! I've seen a doctor and she said its really unusual.
Now I'm trying to figure out what to do. Should I just freeze my eggs immediately, on the next cycle (and probably for the next 3 back to back), as it looks like my fertility might be dropping off a cliff, or should I wait some time to live a really healthy and stress-free life for 3 months before collection. I'm really torn as I know stress is a big factor, and I've been extremely stressed a lot since the end of September, with the miscarriage and then my long term relationship ending recently.
Any experiences or advice? Should I just collect eggs as quickly as possible, or should I try and give my body some time to be in the best state it can before the collection? Does miscarriage affect growing follicles? Or does pregnancy affect growing follicles?
This is a rather long post but I'd really appreciate any suggestions or advice.