Hi all, there are some similar threads but would love a fresh perspective. I have two DSs already, 2 and 4, and after a careless night and a few too many wines discovered I was again pregnant. My initial reaction was horror and I had begun initial research around termination. Myself and my partner then came to terms with it and had actually begun to get excited. At 9 weeks 3 I took a light bleed so booked an early scan revealing an empty sac (measuring 7 weeks). The blood flow has steadily increased which I’m presuming is a miscarriage (a confirming scan is booked for next week).
my head is milling with confusion. The rational side of my brain says be content with what you have and stop at 2. However I feel so low since the scan and seem to be seeing gorgeous bundles and pregnant ladies everywhere. I’m 38 so time is of the essence and a part of me would like to spend more time on “me” while I’m still young- developing hobbies, getting a few beauty treatments, focusing on my career again. But given I’ve been tricked into thinking I’m pregnant, it’s given me some very strong pangs for another little one. Has anyone been through something similar? Were you happy to stick with two? Thanks… C