Multiple Miscarriages

[karlak359]

Hello everyone.

I’ve had 2 miscarriages at 6weeks and 9weeks since May. I’m now 5weeks pregnant and am fairly certain it’s happening again.

I am just feeling incredibly low. I’ve done a lot of reading about recurrent miscarriages, I know what to expect in terms of referrals, tests, costs and likely outcomes etc.

I’m not really sure what I’m looking for in terms of advice - I don’t think there is anything that is going to make me feel better. I suppose I just want to share my pain. I am really struggling with the concept of positive thinking - I don’t understand how staying hopeful is supposed to help when each time the outcome is seemingly inevitable.

Can anyone else understand this? X

I understand OP and my heart goes out to you. I am so very sorry you're going through this.

I've had 4 miscarriages this year and needless to say, it's had a hugely negative impact on me and my life. Positive thinking has definitely eluded me.

The most confusing part is that clearly conception isn't the issue, carrying is. It's really hard to explain to others how demoralising, heart wrenching and confusing this all is.

Be kind to yourself right now. Take it a day at a time, you don't need to feel anything other than what you are right now.