Sorry this is so long I have tried to summarise as best I can!
Long story short I miscarried at about 4 weeks we think on 8/8/22. I’ve been bleeding ever since that date and it’s now 24/9/22. It’s been different kinds of bleeding throughout that time (sometimes heavier sometimes very light, sometimes has had clots or brown elastic stringy bits, sometimes it’s just bright red or pink when I wipe, it genuinely depends on the day).
My hcg levels were tested on these dates and were as follows: 30/08 - 81, 01/09 - 77, 03/09 - 63, 15/09 - 44, 17/09 - 40, 19/09 - 29.
ive been liaising with the EPAU and gynae emergency clinic at my local NHS hospitals during this time - ectopic pregnancy were mentioned, retained products were mentioned, infections etc. Had swabs and bloods done, no sign of infection but was given antibiotics anyway ‘just in case’ on 08/09 and 17/09 as they weren’t sure why I was still testing positive and still having cramps and bleeding.
I have had to argue the toss with the EPAU at my local NHS hospital to get an ultrasound scan, and wasn’t offered a scan until 22/09 when I said I was going to take it further and make a complaint as I didn’t believe I could still be in pain and bleeding all this time later and nothing be wrong.
They did the scan on 22/09 and said everything looked healthy and normal and said sometimes women just get a bit of ‘uterine dysfunction’ after a miscarriage. She went as far as to show me pics of my uterus, ovaries etc off the scan compared to pics of other scans where there are complications I think to try and reassure me a bit that all is ok.
I asked them what the treatment is for uterine dysfunction and she said ‘don’t take anything hormonal just stop stressing about it and let it run it’s course’.
However, they did a urine test the same day rather than another hcg blood test and the test was very clearly still showing up positive, faint but very clear.
They have sent me home with a spare test to do on 30/09 next week and said to ‘forget about it between now and then’. They said they’ll ring me Friday and are expecting the test to be negative but if it’s not they’ll speak to someone from the gynae team.
I have tried to heed their advice and just put it to the back of my mind, and on 23/09 I did think the bleeding had nearly stopped but I’ve continued to have cramp like pains and then I’ve woken up today 24/09 and the bleeding has got heavier again so it’s just very red when I wipe again now like it’s actively bleeding.
I’m just at my wits end of what to do at this point, I’m exhausted and feel so gross bleeding all this time, it’s zapped all my energy and my mental health has took a blow because of all the worrying and stress of not knowing what is going on with my own body.
I just wanted to put this out there to see if anyone has any experiences or anyone has any experience in this in a professional capacity to give me an idea of things that I can look into or ask them for at the clinic etc because I just feel like I’m never going to stop bleeding and being in pain with the cramps :(
TYIA xx