Success after miscarriage

[Rainbowhope23]

Hi ladies! Sorry to have to start this thread. Just needed some encouragement! I recently had a miscarriage about 3 months ago and it was my first pregnancy. I’ve always wanted to be a mom and never thought it would happen but I Got Pregnant!! 🎉. Then before my first big ultrasound I lost it. Worst pain in my life both physical and mental.

fast forward to now have been trying with my BF but hasn’t happened. I was excited they say you’re more fertile but I feel that’s not the same for me.

i have 3 besties and it’s like I’ve lost my baby and happily enough one of them gained a baby which I’m soo happy for but can’t help but too feel sad for me. I hate I feel this way! I’m the last of my friends and entire girls in my family literally to have a kid like why me ?? I know everything happens for a reason I just don’t understand why GOD allowed me, my first child to go and have everyone around me gain this beautiful blessing.

sorry for the rant! Thank you ladies for any encouragement and success stories . GOD bless you guys ❤️

Took me five months to conceive after miscarrying my first. They're always in your heart. Don't despair love, just keep trying xx

I’m sorry for your loss, nothing prepares you for sad news like that.

I miscarried a month ago - also my first pregnancy. I’m hopeful that we will get there when it’s our time. I can understand your journey and the anxiety - but you aren’t alone. There are lots of us out here xx

I'm so sorry, its truly awful.

We lost 4 babies over 5 years. We thought we'd lost number 5 but it turned out to be a haematoma causing major bleeding and now he is 21 months old and an absolute tyrant!

I would say 3 months is a very short time when it comes to getting pregnant. I know it feels like an age when you're so desperate and all your friends are getting pregnant. My first baby took 2.5 years to conceive, second only took 11 months. Then fast forward 7 years (not TTC) and I got pregnant by surprise with our first lost bubba.
Like I said, it then took 5 years following that to conceive our rainbow warrior baby who is our 3rd living child.

I'm afraid patience is key, its painfully hard I know but I wish you lots of luck🍀

Firstly, I am sorry for your loss as well! Yes nothing prepared me for this. no one in my family had went through this, they have all had successful pregnancies still to this date. It kind of sucks that someone else is going through this but also makes me feel okay because i can talk to someone who understands. if you would like to PM through out journeys i would not mind!

Nobody in my family had suffered it either, I think that can add to the sadness can’t it. I found this forum really helpful and comforting to know I’m not alone. I would also be okay with a pm - it’s good to know you have a community around you

try not to put dates to your next cycles of ttc, easier said than done - I know! We’re taking a break from it until we are both able to handle the possibility of a mc happening again. I have to keep reminding myself that there is time - easy to let myself panic or overthink! xX

I got pregnant the month after my miscarriages (I've had three). I did ovulation test and use a period tracking app so we made sure we did the deed around the time I ovulated. I'm like clockwork however so I know it might not be the same for everyone.