Will I ever have a healthy baby? Tfmr followed by 2 miscarriages

[beccs1995]

I am looking for some reassurance more than anything I started miscarrying today at 6 weeks again.i feel utterly broken like I will never be able to achieve my biggest goal in life - to become a mother. I lost my little boy due to being incompatible with life at 20 weeks. I have since then had a miscarriage following and this is now my second subsequent one. I just can't keep going through these losses for the sake of my mental health it's exhausting :(Has anyone had several losses in a row and ended up with a living baby ? With my little boy I had a cvs and mine and my partners chromosomes came back absolutely fine but surely this must be a genetic issue to happen so many times? Baby boy had heart issues and its interesting I'm loosing other babies at the point the heart would start to form? I'm so confused, please send me your stories and sending love baby dust and good wishes to you all, praying you all have healthy future pregnancies

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I didn't want to read and run. I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks then a baby then a tfmr due to my Bad health (really heartbroken by this one). If I am dream about having a healthy baby so can you and you will one day. Have you had any help from the doctors? Sending you a virtual hug xx

I’m so sorry you’re going through another miscarriage. My history is similar to yours in that I’ve had 2 miscarriages (around the 12 week mark) and one TFMR at 20 weeks. We had the chromosome testing and I was so sure there’s be something wrong but myself and DH came back normal so still no explanation for our losses. I know you’re asking for hope/reassurance and I do have a 2 year old little boy who I had before all this happened so the genetics team tell me it should be possible to have another child as they know our genetics work together. If yours and DPs bloods came back clear then perhaps it’s just very bad luck that you’ve had three losses in a row as it seems to be the case with us in the absence of any other explanation. I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant again so just waiting to see how it turns out this time. Please don’t lose hope and make sure you get lots of help and support if needed.