How to recover emotionally after second MMC

[Presently83]

Just had a scan confirm my second MMC (10wks) in 6 months. I'm completely broken and can't imagine going through this again and again and again. How can I? This is unbearable.

I'm so sorry for your losses @Presently83 . I had a mmc three weeks ago and it was one of the most painful experiences i have ever been through. I'm so sorry you've had to go through it twice. Please give yourself time to grieve and unload your feelings on the ones you love and trust. I found sadly there was nothing anyone could say to make me feel better, but it did help me sharing my thoughts on MN and also the miscarriage association forum ❤

Sorry to hear of your loss. Please be kind to yourself 😞

I've had 4 miscarriages now and I'd say definitely that the second was the hardest emotionally for me.

Think about it you want to do any tests privately or sometimes GPs will be some for you after 2nd loss (although 3 MCs needed for full work up) before you get pregnant again.

Take time to recover, it's an awful thing to go through xx

@Presently83 i’m so sorry you’re going through this. I also had multiple MMC and it’s just shit. @Bobduncan gives good advice about taking time to grieve and to share with us if you feel you want to. Thinking of you.

Thanks all. I'm finding this so much harder than I thought I would. I just can't believe this isn't going to happen every single time.

@Presently83 I'm in the same situation, I just had my second MMC in five months and it hurts so much. Sorry for your loss x

I've just had my third chemical pregnancy in 3 months so I know your pain.

There will be good and bad days. I'd recommend trying to get a referral for some tests if you can, and make sure you're getting enough rest and letting yourself feel the grief. It's heavy but it's necessary ❤

@Presently83 I'm so sorry lovely, it's just all too hard now 💔