Hi all
I went for a scan on Thursday after heavy bleeding and cramps, and was told that I am having a miscarriage (8 and a half weeks). I had a scan at 6 weeks which showed a heartbeat, but sadly it turns out the heartbeat stopped a few days later.
The nurse gave me the option of letting the miscarriage occur naturally or having a surgical procedure. Does anyone have advice on which way to go? (Apparently medical management won’t be of much benefit because I’ve already started bleeding)
im not great with pain. So far the cramps are bad at times but manageable, I’m just worried it’s going to get a lot worse. And I hate not knowing when it’s going to happen. The idea of surgery doesn’t freak me out and I’m leaning slightly more towards that option if it means the pain will be less and I’ll know when it’s happening. But I don’t want to do anything that will jeopardise my chance of having a baby in the future. We’d like to start trying again as soon as possible. The nurse said there is a small chance scarring from the surgery can affect ability to conceive, but everything on line says there is no greater risk from the surgical option.
does any one have any advice? The nurse has provisionally booked me in for the procedure next Wednesday but said I should take the next few days to decide
any advice would be much appreciated
thanks
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Natural miscarriage v surgical management
Sxp842 · 21/05/2022 20:15
Sxp842 · 21/05/2022 23:36
Hi all
thanks so much for all of your responses, and I’m sorry for those of those of you who are going / have been through this. It’s horrible. even though I knew the odds i wasn’t prepared for how emotional it would be, and for the physical aspects. I didn’t think it would affect me as much as it has. Just reading through some of the threads on this forum has really helped.
It sounds like surgical seems to be a common choice, where there is a choice. I completely understand why. For those of you who opted for surgery, were you concerned about the risks of impact on future pregnancy or was this something the doctors talked to you about? So far, that seems to be the only potential downside to surgical, but I’m not sure how much of a risk it actually is and there isn’t much info online.
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