Hi Everyone, Sadly I gave birth to our beautiful baby girl, who was born sleeping at 19 weeks 1 day gestation. In the eyes of the law this is classed as a miscarriage!!! I physically gave birth to our baby, as have many other women been through the same situation. This is no miscarriage, i gave birth to our baby.. I went through everything the same as a women who has gone full term would have. I have started a petition and would be really grateful if you would take a minute to read, sign and possibly share this petition please? I believe alot of people will agree that this law is wrong. I'd be really grateful for any kind of support or response this petition gets. Thankyou. Best wishes, Racheal x
petition.parliament.uk/petitions/615852
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Miscarriage/pregnancy loss
Babies born sleeping
RachaelGuinan · 16/05/2022 20:25
HorribleHerstory · 16/05/2022 20:38
Hello Racheal
i am very sorry for the loss of your little girl. I hope you have people around you and support to grieve for her. She was here, and now she isn’t, and I know very well how hard that is.
I’m sorry but I can’t sign your petition. Late miscarriages are difficult I know, and I would support research in this area and a look at how a miscarriage/stillbirth is defined in law due to the ongoing improvements in treating babies born around the point of viability. But a miscarriage, however late and traumatic, is not a stillbirth and it’s not the same thing. And women suffering through late miscarriages are done a disservice by suggesting it is the same as a having a stillborn baby in the same way they are done a disservice by suggesting it is the same as an early miscarriage.
I would support a petition for awareness around the laws on later term miscarriage. I would support a campaign for awareness around the issues causing late miscarriages, their symptoms, and research into preventions. I understand it seems every woman is aware of the “safe” twelve week mark and it seems everyone in late pregnancy is aware of counting kicks and neither seem to apply to you, I do understand this issue.
you need your little baby girl to count as a real person who existed and it feels demeaning when she is referred to as a miscarriage, when she was more than that. I get it. But you can’t in the same breath say that a full term loss is the same. It’s not. I’m not saying it’s easier or harder or worse or better or anything like that. What I am saying is that it’s not the same.
I hope you find some healing with your campaign.
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