anniversary of miscarriage on New Years Eve - advice please.

[elerose]

Hello I lost my last baby at 11weeks 3 days on New Years Eve last year, I'm now 33 weeks but I'm dreading the anniversary. I thought the anniversary of my due date in July would be the worst but I feel much worse now, I'm finding it really difficult when people ask me what I'm doing on New Years Eve I want to say greiving for my lost baby but just say nothing. I think everyone else has forgotton what happened last year and that upsets me even more. I don't feel I can talk to anyone in RL because I don't want to bring people down at this time of year. Has anyone got any advice on how to deal with this as I don't think I'm copeing very well.

im so sorry ,thinking of you it hard my grandson died 1st dec 2006 and people cant see why you find it hard a whole twelve monts laterx big hugs to youx

elerose just to say am thinking of you today..have had 3 mcs one being a mmc not found until I was 15wks..that was the worst as I had to spend the christmas being 'pg' waiting for baby to pass only to go into hospital on 30th dec to have a d+c. It was horrible and everytime anniversaries pass I do feel sad..however we had found out on the 16th dec baby had died but had to wait. On the year anniversary I gave birth to my lovely dd1 and a sad memory is overshadowed by a lovely one.

To all those on this thread, hoping for good things in 2008, and remembering all our little angels.