Hi all, after 14 years of infertility and just about to be referred for ivf i some how fell pregnant naturally (putting this down to partner stopped smoking 🤷♀️ Prior to this his last sperm test came back normal count but only 3% normal morphology.
We were beyond excited however at 6and a half weeks I had some spotting, phoned midwife on the thur as booking appt wasn’t till Monday and they weren’t concerned despite me wondering if could have been down to something that caused infertility affecting baby and bright red blood.
Midwife phoned on tue to book in and I advised I was still bleeding bright red, didn’t soak through a pad but was every time I wiped even if seconds apart. A bit more concerned this time but booked me in and advised she would phone epu but due to no cramping didn’t no if they would see me. After phone call went to bathroom and a lot more blood. Phoned back and advised this and then epu nurse phoned but couldn’t book me in for scan till Monday.
Wed night had a sudden rush of blood to soak through a panty liner so phoned back on thur morning to epu, couldnt get hold of anyone, phoned ward as advised they said wld send an email hopefully here back same day. By this point I was panicking my partner was also working 4 hours away. Phoned my midwife and she advised me to phone them back and say she had advised me to go up. Phoned back they said midwife needed to do this, que 5 phone calls and two hours later while heavy bleeding finally said I could go up. Partner had headed up the road so let me at hospital.
But this point had been bleeding bright red for a week. Got scan and they advised was only measuring 5 weeks, could I have got dates wrong? Absolutely not unless I have managed to have an extremely late ovulation as by this point I should have been 8 weeks.
Have to go back for another scan on Thursday but am already expecting the worst.
At last scan could see sac but no baby, advised this cld be because of only measuring 5 weeks but I’m not at all hopeful.
It is now Monday and I’m still heavy bleeding, not really cramping, sore boobs. Bearing in mind am assuming baby stopped growing at 5 weeks and wondering when it will all be over 😓 ive cried till I think I have no tears left and my heart hurts. Want to go back to trying but the fact we waited 14years doesn’t fill me with hope and then there’s the dread it will happen again 😭
Don’t no if advice am looking for or anyone been throu similar. 2 weeks of bleeding and no further forward and I’ve had enough x