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MC while TTC third baby

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scotmumof2 · 02/09/2021 07:07

So lockdown has changed so much for so many families. For me and my DH, we both knew we wanted to make our family bigger. With a secure job and two already beautiful children (ages 10 and 3) we started trying in March after I had my implant removed.

2 weeks ago I had implantation bleeding and just knew I was pregnant. Took a CB digital test and bingo! Excitement beyond belief. We have been really quick conceiving all of our children, around 5 months. I swear on taking daily ovulation tests!

I started bleeding a few days ago, I know I am miscarrying Sad it's so hard to get my head around. I blame myself for convincing when I was recovering from covid. Then I have had my second vaccine two days before I have MC but I am trying not to think about it. I had a missed MC when I was younger and had a D&C. This one seems so much more as I can see it in front of my eyes.

Everything online is conflicting when is the right time to try again. Emotionally, I am pretty positive overall about the MC, I am trying to tell myself its natures way of cancelling a pregnancy that wouldn't have gone well. Sorry for the rant. I needed to get it out of my head and written down. I would like to know if there is anyone who is in a similar position as me,

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HitsAndMrs · 02/09/2021 12:11

Hi,

I have an 8 and 10 year old and I have just had my 3rd miscarriage in a year. I'm really trying to move on and appreciate what I have because I am so so lucky but I am so so sad. We plan things in our head and it's hard when that is taken away. I feel that my children are getting too old to keep trying now due to the age gap but if you have a 3 year old, keep trying. I hope it happens for you.

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