LondonSkaterLady · 08/07/2021 16:12
I just need some advice.
Im around 7 weeks pregnant and have been back and forth to the hospital the last few days as ive been bleeding which is getting heavier and heavier. This is my first ever pregnancy.
The scans haven't shown a heartbeat but the sac is still there. I have come to terms with accepting that im most likely having a miscarriage as there is just so much blood more than I would have on a normal period and ive pretty much had cramps the last 4 days.
The sonographer today said she can't advise either way at this stage if the pregnancy is viable and I have to wait until another scan next week. There has been growth over the last few days. I clearly have resigned myself to the fact im most likely having a miscarriage due to factors mentioned above. Family and partner seem to think I should just be staying positive until the scan next week and it's making me feel like no one is really listening to me. Im all for thinking positively but it feel frustrating for others to be telling me to just be positive when I'm heavily bleed and feel so unwell.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated
WishingWaiting · 09/07/2021 15:03
Hello, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I'm going through something similar with my sixth pregnancy (no living children yet) - I'm about 5 weeks and had heavy bleeding yesterday. It's lighter today but I'm not holding out much hope.
I don't have any advice, other than to feel what you feel and be kind to yourself. I understand what it's like to assume the worst as it feels easier that way. Thinking of you
LondonSkaterLady · 10/07/2021 13:47
Hi @WishingWaiting thank you for your reply. So sorry to hear what you've been through. Wishing you all the best with your situation.
Mine unfortunately rapidly got worse and had to go back to the hospital yesterday and was confirmed that I was having a miscarriage. I am so very grateful that I was able to fall pregnant as I know this isn't the case for everyone.
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way 💜
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