Hi all. I’m stuck in a horrible limbo at the moment so I was hoping others could maybe share their experiences.
I’ve had three second trimester pregnancy losses. All babies were genetically normal and healthy and no reason was ever found for the losses. For the last one I took aspirin throughout the pregnancy and he grew bigger than the others (got to nearly 20 weeks) so I think it helped a little but not enough.
I then went to see a private doctor who finally found a reason for why my losses might be happening - he diagnosed high NK cells and also suspects that I might have a placenta problem called CHI.
I found out I was pregnant again in February and was on a very complex treatment plan. I felt so hopeful that this pregnancy would work out, and had positive scans at 8 and 10 weeks. Then at 11 weeks I had my nhs dating scan and the baby’s heart had stopped. They hadn’t grown at all since the ten week scan which was only 6 days before.
I just don’t understand how the only pregnancy on medication was the one that has ended earliest, and I guess I’m really hoping this was a random genetic problem with the baby that couldn’t have been prevented. I feel like my whole life now just revolves around waiting for the genetic test results, so we know if it’s worth is trying again, or if there’s no hope for us in future pregnancies.
So I guess what I’m asking is - how likely is it to be a genetic loss when we saw a heartbeat at 8 and 10 weeks? And how long does genetic testing usually take to come back for a first trimester miscarriage? I can’t move on or make an plans in life while I’m in this awful limbo of not knowing.