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Miscarriage at 18 weeks following two early miscarriages

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russianred · 17/04/2021 06:54

Morning. I’m in hospital at the moment waiting for the process of losing my baby to happen. I had a bleed yesterday and came in for anti-D and to be checked over and there was no heartbeat on the scan. My baby had a heartbeat at the 12 week scan and again a week later after a small bleed at 13 weeks. I have been anticipating that this would happen in a catastrophising way but also hoping beyond hope that this time would be okay.
I had a miscarriage in September and another in December - at 9 and 5 weeks respectively. I think I am still in a lot of shock. Not really sure why I am posting - I think I would like to know what I should expect today to feel like. I had some cramping overnight but that has stopped and they have mentioned getting a pessary in this morning. My partner is allowed to visit me, so that’s one thing.

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Icecreamlover63 · 17/04/2021 07:06

I’m
Sending you so much love right now. I never miscarried so I don’t completely understand how you must feel right now but I can only imagine the hurt. Is there a health care assistant that could sit with you because this is do unfair. Could you talk to a nurse or phone your partner or your mum. Please try to talk to somebody please xx

mimofboy2 · 17/04/2021 07:07

I just wanted to say I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how tough that is and wanted to send love. I can offer anything useful I'm safaris just didn't want to read and run.

russianred · 17/04/2021 07:14

Thanks both. Weirdly, I’m used to it being on my own as the last two also happened during Covid. It’s shit, but it feels normal, I suppose. My partner and friends are on the phone if I need them. My Mum is travelling to get to us so she can look after my children (my partner’s step-children) and he can be here with me.

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rainbowbabybump · 09/05/2021 17:48

@russianred hope you are recovering well, and get the support and time you need to heal.

I also had a late miscarriage at16 weeks, xx

angel0071987 · 09/05/2021 18:06

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been there at 16.5weeks. It's devastating giving birth to soemthing you can't bring home. I hope you've been well looked after. Take care

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