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Miscarriage at 9 weeks

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Cheeks90 · 31/01/2021 21:05

First time posting, and unfortunately it's a sad one.
I have suffered from spotting most days during my pregnancy and I am now 9 weeks and 5 days.
Today I've had some cramps but nothing unbearable.
When I went to the toilet tonight blood just fell onto the floor, down my legs, all over the toilet seat.... I just shouted and cleaned myself as quick as possible, dived in the car and went straight to the urgent care centre. They took my blood and urine sample and I have to go back tomorrow for a scan.
I know I should try to be positive but I cant help but think there was just too much blood for everything to be okay.
Does anyone have any Similar experiences?
Thanks in advance ❤

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MandsH · 31/01/2021 22:27

So sorry to hear this OP. I have just been through a MMC so I’ll pray everything will be okay from you. Not my story but my mum told me that when she was 9 weeks pregnant with me she bled quite a bit and was convinced it was a MC. Obviously it turned out that things were completely fine. I really hope this is the case for you ❤️

Cheeks90 · 01/02/2021 07:16

Thank you so much.
I'm hoping to get a scan asap today but I've had pains all night and the bleeding continued.
I am trying to be positive but I dont see how its going to be okay now. 💔

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Cheeks90 · 01/02/2021 07:17

I'm so sorry for your MMC ❤ sending love xx

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MandsH · 01/02/2021 09:12

Best of luck today hun. I wish you strength for whatever the outcome. Please let me know how you get on. Sending love ❤️

Cheeks90 · 01/02/2021 17:09

Unfortunately it wasn't meant to be 💔 heartbroken

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MandsH · 01/02/2021 17:40

Oh hun I am so so sorry 😢. I know nothing I say right now will make this better. Please just be kind to yourself. Sleep as much as you need. Drink plenty. And above all don’t keep anything in... scream, shout, cry, get it all out. Life can be so unfair and cruel. I’m 7 weeks past mine and I’m still completely devastated and emotional obviously. I’m here if you need to talk anything through hun. Take care x

Cheeks90 · 01/02/2021 18:50

Thank you so much. We were so excited. I know plenty of people go through this and me and you will get through it too hun. We are made of strong stuff and I'm here if you ever need to talk xxx

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MandsH · 01/02/2021 19:29

I know hun we were so excited too this was our first pregnancy after 18 months of trying. I was 9 weeks when I found out as well and then 10 1/2 weeks I had an MVA because it didn’t happen naturally for me. Even though they tell you how common it is though I still can’t get over why me!? But yes you are doing so well already hun just by sharing what you are going through. We are strong but remember you don’t always have to act strong, ask and accept help when you need it. X

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