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Pregnancy tests getting darker

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Anonymous9375 · 11/12/2020 14:49

Hi,

It is a long one but I’m driving myself nuts and was hoping someone could shed some light on what might be happening before my app.

I had a mc in January of this year at 11+4 and had to eventually get a d&c due to not passing everything naturally. We have been actively trying since and on 26.11.20 I took a clear blue test and it showed 1-2 weeks.

Initially we were elated but we decided not to get too excited based on our previous loss. I started spotting the next day so I booked an app with the epu and they said they could see the sack but it was too early to see the fetal pole and booked another app for 3 weeks.

I took another test on 02.12.20 and it showed 2-3 so it reassured me briefly. However, the next day I started bleeding heavier and it was bright red, that evening, I passed what I think was the sack and placenta. I didn’t feel any pain at all, but I put it down to myself possibly blocking it out.

I rang my gp and she said it sounded like I had a complete mc and to call back if the pain or bleeding got worse, but to keep the app with the epu to ensure everything had passed ok. She also said to take pregnancy tests every week to ensure my hcg was dropping as it should.

I took another pregnancy test yesterday and it came back stronger than when I started to bleed, I also took a cb and it showed 3+ weeks. I’ve taken 4 since and they’re all showing the same, strong positives or 3+. I called my gp again for advice and she said it’s most likely the tests are wrong and it’s just taking a bit longer for the hcg to fall.

The blood has started to taper off and is more a dark red/brown spotting now. However, should the tests still be as dark as what they are and the cb increasing in weeks?? I know they can be v inaccurate but I didn’t expect them all to say the same thing.

Has anyone else experienced this and it turned out everything was ok or vice versa?? I should add my gp won’t take me in for bloods and they can’t bring forward my app due to COVID-19.

Any help appreciated!!

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KatCain · 18/12/2020 15:15

Hi,

I don’t know how helpful this is, as I never took a home pregnancy test after my miscarriage. However, I miscarried (spontaneous, complete and at about 7 weeks) on March 3rd this year. My doctor wanted to see my HCG back at a normal level so she kept sending me for blood tests. It was the 28th of April by the time by levels were low enough for her to stop sending me. (They were down to 2, then.)

Anonymous9375 · 18/12/2020 18:10

Hi,

I’m so sorry for your loss. Yeah, I did expect them to stay high, just not sure why the clear blue was increasing rather than decreasing.

I’ve been taking tests regularly and they’re still really strong, darker than the control line. I have my app on Monday so I suppose I’ll know either way!!

Thanks for replying!

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Jingleq · 18/12/2020 18:20

Hi so sorry your going through this what a difficult situation to be in. How was your bleeding? Has it subsided and how long did it last?

tubbycustardtummyache · 18/12/2020 18:24

How many weeks are you now? I think you need a scan if you’ve not been scanned so far
Fwiw my ‘miscarriage’ (huge bleed at about 7 weeks) is currently stripping the baubles off the Christmas tree!

Jingleq · 18/12/2020 18:27

Sorry it posted half a message! I don’t want to give you false hope but I had quite a large bleed last Saturday and had brown spotting on numerous occasions and currently 6+1 had a scan today which showed a strong heartbeat and measuring perfect. Nurse said it could of been a hematoma which are very common. I had a large clot also about the size of a 5p I’d say that I passed with the bleed and of course self diagnosed but all is well 💕

MissSmiley · 18/12/2020 21:43

I have had bleeding in pregnancy, later than you at 14 weeks and it flooded
My mc at 6 weeks was incredibly painful, like labour pains, I was also very emotional due to the hormones dropping, I really hope you have good news on Monday, I know waiting is the hardest part

Anonymous9375 · 19/12/2020 00:21

@Jingleq yes the bleeding has completely stopped now and no pain. Slight bleeding after sex but happened me before pregnancy so didn’t bother me!! So glad your scan went well for you and you seen your little bean!! 🥰 I do feel like doctor google sometimes (which is the worst thing to do) but the wait is killing me!

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Anonymous9375 · 19/12/2020 00:24

@tubbycustardtummyache hi! According to my dates I should be around 7 weeks or so. Yeah, just praying Monday isn’t as bad as I think but just don’t have a good feeling after my first mc.

Did you have pain or pass clots when you bled? So glad it turned out ok for you!! 😊

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Strawberrypancakes · 19/12/2020 00:24

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Anonymous9375 · 19/12/2020 00:28

@MissSmiley sorry for your previous loss. It’s hard at any stage.

That’s what’s baffling me, I remember the pain vividly with my first one - even when I didn’t pass everything and it was 1000000% not like that this time, as I mentioned in my original post, I had no pain. I did see somewhere that happens though so maybe I’m one of the ‘lucky’ ones so to speak.

Thank-you!! I’ve been praying for it to speed up and now that it’s getting closer it makes me feel sick thinking about it 😢 what will be will be I suppose. I will keep yous all posted! Thank you for your replies. X

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Anonymous9375 · 19/12/2020 00:30

@Strawberrypancakes thanks for your reply and sorry for your loss.

Yeah, I know they can be so inaccurate. I think I was almost hoping it to be ok when I know deep down it’s not.

I have my scan on Monday so will see what they say. I’m just hoping for the best and expecting the worst!

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Rtmhwales · 19/12/2020 00:31

I just recently had a D&C and still getting solid positives and darker on my tests unfortunately. I think you'll have to just wait until Monday as it could go either way really. Fingers crossed for you.

Anonymous9375 · 19/12/2020 00:38

@Rtmhwales thank you for your reply and I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re recovering ok after your op.

Yeah, that’s all I can do at this stage. Just wanted some advice to mentally prepare for the scan!!

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Mrsi2020 · 19/12/2020 01:07

I hope Monday goes well. What I will say is, stay hopeful but realistic. I’ve seen so many times on this forum where I’ve read threads and thought mc and when they’ve updated it’s went well. I’ve had 5 losses myself and I’m having all being well my 3rd child so 8th pregnancy, and I’ve bled every single time except this time. I bled so heavily with my second daughter at about 9 weeks that I was sure all was gone and she’s here, wrecking my head on the daily!

Fingers crossed for you and I hope it’s good news on Monday. Xxx

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