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I feel like im being teased

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Mumma626 · 13/07/2020 20:16

I had my miscarriage confirmed about 3 weeks ago and I passed (I/ hate saying that) my baby last week.
This is my 4th miscarriage ( I do have two children already) but I have really struggled with this one emotionally.

I have spoke to my partner about trying for another baby and he is adamant that he doesn't want anymore. He didn't want any ore babies before I fell pregnant.

Due to obviously grieving I'm really struggling with seeing people being pregnant, announcing pregnancies or the birth of babies. I ache in a way that I can't describe and at the moment it feels like in some sick way I'm being teased.

I hate that my heart aches for another child 100x more than it did a few months ago. It feels as though having another baby is all I can think about. I saw my neighbour bring home her newborn son yesterday and I intsantly started crying. I worry I will be like this forever.

Im not quite sure why I wrote this post to be honest. I think I just needed to express my feelings in a place where I wont judged for feel silly.

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ShalomToYouJackie · 13/07/2020 20:26

I'm so sorry about your miscarriages OP.

I completely understand, it feels like babies and baby products are everywhere, everyone is pregnant or has a baby and it seems so unfair.

It gets easier eventually.

Is your DP being supportive?

Mumma626 · 14/07/2020 13:58

@ShalomToYouJackie as much as he can be. We haven’t spoken about it since it happened but I think that is me protecting myself.
I know he wasn’t pleased about having another baby. I don’t think he would but I don’t think I would be able to cope with any comments that may indicated he is happy about not having another xx

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