Ttc for 3 years...

[paigeleeforever182]

Just writing this to vent. I feel like ttc is absolutely hopeless. I’ve been trying for 3 years and gotten pregnant twice but miscarried both very early.. It’s been a year and a half since I’ve been pregnant and it just seems like it’s never gonna happen.. I’ve been on Chlomid for 6 months and not even that has worked. All I want is to be a mother and see everyone around me get pregnant so easily having their second and third children. It just hurts so bad... I know I’m not alone in it, but sometimes it feel like I’m completely alone :(

Sorry for your losses OP. I sympathise, having just had my 3rd MC, and TTC 9yrs. What testing have you had? Do you qualify for IVF in your area?

I've just started reading 'Its starts with an Egg' (the latest edition) and its fascinating how many chemicals are around us that can affect fertility. I got pregnant the 1st time after I lost 10kg. I also MC that pregnancy, but by that stage, I'd TTC 4yrs and was just grateful to know I actually could get pregnant. Are there any lifestyle changes you can make? Have you seen a specialist?

So sorry to hear you are going through this. You are definitely not alone, although I know it can feel like it. We have been trying for 4 years and got pregnant recently only to miscarry at 8 weeks. My best friend is pregnant with her third and we would have been due the same week. This TTC business is emotionally draining and like you I'm just desperate to be a mother at this point. Sending love xx