Possible 3rd miscarriage

[Hrcg87]

I recently found out we were pregnant after ttc for nearly a year, im around 6 weeks. Our first 2 pregnancies have ended in miscarriage (8wks and 11wks). In second pregnancy, i bled around this time but didn’t actually miscarry until 11wks. I started bleeding 2 days ago and it feels the same as my second miscarriage , all my symptoms have disappeared no sore boobs, no sickness etc. Bleeding is varying in intensity and colour from pink to red to brown and there have been some clots. EPAU aren't seeing anyone unless you cant manage your symptoms at home. I feel numb, I've had the worse year i lost my mum suddenly in January, my Gran 10 weeks later and now this. My partners trying to be positive saying Its not as bad as before so there may still be a chance. I just want it to happen now, i cant cope with the idea of it dragging out for weeks like the second mc, where we got to see our baby's heartbeating on a scan, felt the sheer relief and excitement only to lose them later. Sorry no questions for anyone just whats on my mind

Aww sorry to hear your going through this, its completely crap and no matter what anyone says you stil feel alone and low, I've felt quite low throughout my whole little pregnancy due to a hemorrhage and i gotta go find out tomorrow if baby has died or not, the only thing i can say is enjoy every part of being a mum they are still your baby and you still carried them even for a short time, noone can take that from you and i suppose thats what i hold on to every time I loose one, all the best x

@Hrcg87 I'm so sorry, that is an awful awful year. I've just started bleeding at 5 weeks. This will be my 3rd miscarriage in a row if it is a miscarriage. Previous 2 were missed miscarriages and dragged out and I'm dreading that again. I was searching for similar stories and came across your post. I hope things turned out ok for you?

Im so sorry, that sounds like a really traumatic year, you may find relief in a bit of counselling?

My partner tried counselling when he was getting very stressed and anxious over work and it was turning into depression, however sceptic he was he went (free on NHS only waited about 3 weeks to get on) and said it helped him so much just to talk and talk and release everything

They also give you some coping skills he didnt know, like how to stop spiralling and how to sleep better, be kind to yourself my dear it sounds like you need some serious TLC