In 2012 I fell pregnant, this was my first pregnancy and it ended in an ectopic pregnancy. 2 years later I then had my little boy. After my son was born it took me and my partner 6 years and a break up in between to fall pregnant again, which we found out about last October. Sadly that ended in miscarriage at 6 weeks. After that felt like I never wanted to be pregnant again, started to become okay with the fact that I'd had a miscarriage and started to want to try again and had conversations with my boyfriend about trying again. Then April came, the day before my boyfriend's birthday I found out I was pregnant again, by the end of that week I'd had another miscarriage again at 6 weeks, stupid to be upset about it I know as I only knew about it for 4 days but even still it left me feeling broken and empty and back to how I felt 7 months before hand.
It's only been a month but I never want to go through this again and don't want any possibility of getting pregnant again. I've asked to have the losses looked into after being advised that this was an option due to losing more than one to then find out that it wasn't an option as I didn't fit the 'criteria'. The option to be sterilised has been refused because of the same reason and because I'm under 30 and the doctors believe I'll change my mind, I won't.
Has anyone been sterilised privately? How did you start the process off? Was it a long process?
Any information received is appreciated.
Thank you. X