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I can't cope

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Nibles9665501 · 02/05/2020 03:09

I had a silent miscarriage a few months ago, and although I was obviously very upset, I knew I was coping too well. With the lockdown, and all this time with my thoughts, everything that's happened has hit we at once and Im really not coping anymore. I feel like there's a massive hole in my heart, like something is missing and I can't make myself happy no matter how hard I try.

My partner doesn't want to try for a baby for years and it's breaking my heart. I know a baby won't heal my loss, and although I'm not ready now, my whole heart and sole is yearning for a baby.

This terrifies me too. I suffer from severe anxiety and I don't think I can genuinely take the panic of this happening again, if I were to be pregnant.

I just need someone to talk to who understands how I feel. I've never felt so alone, all I can seem to do is cry and wish that this never happened

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Poppy10121 · 02/05/2020 09:17

So sorry to hear that you are struggling @Nibles9665501. Lockdown is making difficult times more intense for sure.

Have you tried speaking to someone at the Miscarriage Association? They have a phone line Mon-Fri.

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Timeforanamechangeagain1 · 03/05/2020 08:33

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I would also recommend the miscarriage association, they have a forum which includes tips for how to cope during covid 19

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