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Any reason?!

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Hammers00 · 12/04/2020 17:46

Hi all,
I had a miscarriage last week at 17 weeks and I am obviously going through all the emotions constantly but all i keep hearing is ‘everything happens for a reason’ Has anyone actually been through it and a few months down the line thought yes this could have been why it happened because some massive life unplanned event happened or something?
We took 5 months to get pregnant which i know in the grand scheme of things is nothing but with my first we were pregnant on the first cycle and since this lockdown started i had kept saying that’s why it took so long or i would have been due during this and potentially not able to have my husband in the room during the birth and was thankful it took us 5 months, now obviously that doesn’t matter. But i just need some positive stories as i’m having a angry moment at how unfair it is that my boy has been taken away along with all my dreams we had with him for the future.

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Appiandterri · 12/04/2020 18:50

Im so very sorry Flowers
There really is no reason, not one that I found at any rate. I’ve shed many tears just asking “but why?” And the only conclusion I’ve come to is that life just isn’t fair.
I don’t have any positives I’m sorry ( IVF, 4 mc between 6-10 weeks) but maybe some shared stories here may have. There are also ideas for marking the loss of your son that may bring some comfort. So sorry Flowers
www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/your-feelings/your-stories/

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