Struggling

[Piecrust32]

I was induced yesterday and had my beautiful baby at 27weeks

I'm really struggling all I want to do is lie in bed and forget the world outside,
I'm tired of people going " oh you've got your other children", yes I do but they are not my baby , I want my baby

How do you move on from this, I've been thrown back into normal life and tbh I really dont want to do this, i don't want to do anything and I cant see myself getting on with life atm

you do whatever you can do.
You feel no pressure and if all your family eat is cornflakes for a week that’s fine.
Who have you got nearby? Any support xx have you been offered the bereavement midwives?

OP, I’m so sorry for what you’re going through.

I gave birth to my baby just over 3 weeks ago, I was 17 weeks pregnant. I can honestly say it’s by far the worst pain I’ve ever been through, I feel like my heart has broken.

It’s such a strange time to be going through all this, like the world has stood still. I can’t offer any words of advice really, because I’m struggling too. I think we just have to hold on... and believe that we’re going to be ok in the end.

Sending you love

@Piecrust32 so sorry to hear what you're going through. Please know, it's ok to feel how you're feeling right now. Sometimes, people don't know what to say, and they can end up saying the wrong thing. I haven't been in your position (I MC at 6-weeks) but I have been through bereavement of an immediate family member recently. Allow yourself the time to grieve, and give yourself permission to feel what you're feeling. There is no time-frame for moving on, and you may never... I'm so sorry for your loss, it must be unbearable. I didn't want to read and run - just wanted to say that I'll keep you in my thoughts and I'll be thinking of you

Also, same for you @Heartbroken2020, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself during this time x