How often do you guys have sex? Help

[Jojowash]

Hi guys

How often do you and partner have sex in a month ?

How long have you been together?

My partner seems to hound me permanently, makes me feel guilty and he’s moody until he gets it. He doesn’t actually even try to initiate it but will openly huff and puff in bed, tap his fingers and feet to let me know he’s irritated with that I haven’t had sex with him yet. It’s a proper put off and rude! We probably have sex every 3 days and move often when fertile. He’ll buy tight pvc outfits and remind me they are there, I’m not comfortable dressing up since I’ve put on 2 stone.

For example yesterday a pair of pvc sticking arrived in post, he said maybe you’ll just wear them if you don’t feel comfortable in the other things, when we went to bed, after about an hour of laying there with no intimacy or affection and as I was about to fall to sleep he says, don’t fancy putting on them stockings do you? I was like.. no

I mean I just feel pushed into it, I’m expected to cum otherwise he gets a complex but rolling over and landing on me isn’t a turn on.
I’m supposed to initiate it, want it, reveal in his manliness, worship his penis and have a huge orgasm all without warming me up and every day???
So now he’s just sulking and snappy like a small child. Is it just me!
Ps we’ve been together 5.5 years and been trying for baby 12 months having two miscarriages in the way 😞

Sorry for your losses that sucks.

Your partner is being an arse he can’t expect you to just perform after no warm up whatsoever. And why should you wear pvc if your not comfortable doing it?

Personally I certainly wouldn’t wear pvc at all (but not my thing) or even sexy underwear on demand. I’d seriously consider ending it if this is the only way he seems to get turned on, surely you as you are should be enough.

To get bfp we had sex at least twice a week or 8 times a month. We’ve been together a few years.

I’d suggest talking to your OH explain you need a warm up and be firm about the pvc if you don’t want to do it. If you do something sexually just to please your partner that is a form of self abuse.

Really hope things work out for you. Hopefully if you choose to stay with him you will fall pg soon and then you can use that as an excuse to have a nice year long break from being hassled for sex 😀

You might not have any problems with a different partner. Just saying

He sounds awful. You could find someone who respects you instead of worrying about him.