Misscarriage at 7 weeks

[Rebecca3127]

Hi, first post on here and I just need some advice.
I had a misscariage 2 weeks ago and was just over 7 weeks. The thing is it wasnt planned and I know we cant really afford a baby at the moment.
Anyway my partners parents said to me that they cant understand why I'm sad when I should be relived ( they along with my partner were trying to push me onto a termination which I really didnt want to do) when they asked me why I was being miserable and not "already over it " i didnt even know what to say. My heads messed up and I dont know why I feel like this.

You have every right to feel however you feel. A miscarriage is difficult and traumatic whether the baby was planned or not. From personal experience, I had a miscarriage after I got pregnant when I wasn't ready, and the guilt on top of the grief made me really sad. Look after yourself. x

I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks in August. Ours was planned but planned or not, your hormones and emotions are all over the place. It takes time to recover. Be kind to yourself and don't allow yourself to be rushed into recovering.

I think its alot to do with my opinion on termination, it's something I really ddont agree with, and the fact I even listened to them then I lost it anyway, I hate myself at the minute for that

I had a miscarriage this passing Christmas, spent it in the hospital actually, I wasn't able to leave until 3 am on the 26th. Me and my future husband actually planned the baby and this would be my first pregnancy, even though I'm 21 I was so happy to know I was gonna have a family and was so devastated. I get so upset wen the tell me "your young" "you can try again" I'm hurting I was suppose to be happy this year.