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Rejoining the world.

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Buffy101 · 14/09/2019 11:39

For the last month or so my life has revolved around when I was going to miscarry.

I got pregnant via IVf so had early scans that showed the baby was small and the yolk sac was large so to expect the worst. Last week my scan showed my baby had died and then this week I had a natural miscarriage while waiting for a surgical management.

I guess my life has revolved constantly around miscarriage for the past few weeks. Now I've Finally had one it's almost like I don't know what to do with myself anymore. In a weird way it feels scary to move out of the miscarriage bubble and try and re-join the "normal" world. Has anyone else experienced this? It feels safer just to remain at home in my pyjamas x

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PlinkPlink · 14/09/2019 11:46

Sending you lots of hugs. I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby. Did you have any names picked out?

I haven't been through this myself but would like to say that you should allow yourself to grieve. Allow yourself pyjama days... or weeks. Dont't feel guilty about doing nothing or feeling shit. Just take your time to slowly rejoin the world.

Take time for yourself. You have been through such an awful loss and you need time to grieve your baby.

There are lots of people on here who will give you support, who have been through what you have and I hope that you find some comfort in their words.

Sending you strength and love Flowers

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