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In 2011 I had a miscarriage

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Roxy933 · 25/06/2019 02:47

Ok so in 2011 at 17 years of age I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks I gave birth to my baby when in hospital but I have no clue where my baby went I was in a side room and was having contractions I had a massive huge clot and the nurse just picked it up and put it in the bin at that moment I didn’t think anything about the clot but after a while me and my partner we went back to look through the bin but it was gone and I never said nothing to no one as it was already gone but to this day I have believed my baby was put in the bin and it kills me I haven’t been able to heal properly because of it it breaks my heart thinking my baby was thrown away like trash and went to a land field full of rubbish 😭 I guess I don’t know where I’m going with this post but I need to get it of my chest and I guess to ask is there anyway I can find out what happened to my baby 8 years on and I still haven’t healed like I should have 😭

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Knitclubchatter · 25/06/2019 02:55
Flowers it's not easy but usually products of conceptions are first sent to the lab department to be examined and possibly forwarded to pathology. but eventually are treated as a bio hazard.
Roxy933 · 25/06/2019 05:57

they can bury babies here and have a funeral with them all together tho 😭but I know this never happens with my baby as they never asked what would I like to happen 😭xx

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Masha31 · 25/06/2019 08:38

I'm so sorry to hear this. Could you contact the hospital and ask them? I know there's processes in place now for ceremonies etc but I'm not sure what the rules were 8 years ago? I hope you get some peace Flowers

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