Surrey Babies/Children Cemetery

[mothersandsons]

Hi.
We recently lost our baby at 15 weeks.

We would be grateful for your recommendation on where the Epsom Butterfly Garden or Redstone Babies Memorial Garden was better? Any one with the unfortunate experience of having had to choose between the two for your own child? Pros and Cons?

Thank you in advance.

Hi,
Sorry for your loss.

I had a miscarriage a few years ago at 13 weeks. Because of seeing him/her I couldn’t just dispose of my baby so me and my partner started looking at burials. We decided to bury at our local cemetery in the baby section. At the time it seemed like a good idea as all of my family members that have ever passed have always been buried and I was always anti cremation. Only 3 years on I can’t even tell you how much I regret the decision. I’ve even looked into getter him/her dug up but the price it just too much. Too much paper work and questions why.
I would 100% get a cremation. You can keep your baby at home with you. Get him/her but into a pretty necklace and take them every where with you.

I feel so far away. Worry that there cold. Now as well we have moved house I am miles away from the cemetery and it’s hard to get there.

Sorry that wasn’t the answer you were looking Maybe that will help you in your decision.

Thinking of you 💐xxx