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Missed Miscarriage at 12+2

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Firsttimer2017 · 04/05/2019 10:03

I think somehow I already knew, I went to my dating scan and found out the baby had stopped growing past 10/11 weeks. I had a D&C on Thursday which was surreal, I lost a lot of blood during the procedure so have fainted a few times. I’m so gutted as I had not expected my fears to be real. I have a 19 month old (I know how so lucky I am to have her) who I am still breastfeeding. Now as my hormones are changing my milk is essentially “coming in” again as it had decreased a lot during my pregnancy. I just wondered how others coped when you have to keep going for your other child. I’ve just been stood crying in the shower as it’s all sinking in. I had a small bump on Thursday and now it’s gone. And my emotions are all over the place. Any advice would be greatly received. Thank you x

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RedSheep73 · 04/05/2019 14:06

Sad I'm sorry, that's awful. I had 2 missed mcs before I had my kids, I know how rotten it is but at least I didn't have to keep going for anyone's benefit. You have to let yourself grieve a bit, even with a child to look after, you are still allowed to feel sad.

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