Completely confused and in a bad way 😭

[Roxy933]

So I’m feeling very down I found out I was pregnant on the 22nd of March I then started having light brown spotting on the 10th of April that lasted around a week then it stopped I thought oh it might be due to the smear test I had on the 13th of March so I tried not to worry but rung early pregnancy unit on the 11th of April who got me in for a scan for the next day they scanned me and found a sac and a yolk sac but no baby the sac was at 5 weeks 3 days they booked me in for another scan for exactly 2 weeks from my scan so on the 26th that day I started bleeding red blood they scanned me and the sac was at 6 weeks 4 days there was a baby but only measured 2.2mm so 5 weeks with no heartbeat they said they couldn’t confirm miscarriage as baby was only measuring 5 weeks so would be no heartbeat and i can’t remember my last period so they can’t go by that but my periods are normally dead on time and my last period I can remember was the 28th of jan so my period should of been around the 26th of feb anyway this don’t make sense I had a positive test 5 weeks ago and baby is measuring 5 weeks the baby should surly be a lot bigger and the bleeding has convinced me that I’m losing my baby it’s been going on since Friday now 😭 and it’s quite heavy I don’t even know why I’m writing this I guess for others to tell me their experiences maybe help me confirm I have definitely miscarried or there might still be a small hope as the waiting is making me be in a bad way if I knew for sure I could start the healing stage 😭😭😭 sorry for the long long post ladies

Just released I didn’t put in the post they took my bloods on the 12th of April to and they come back as my hormone levels were at 19,267 x

Dates at early scans are often inaccurate, I had two EPU scans and one they barely seen anything, no heartbeat visible - looking back on dates now I would have been 5+2 or something.
The fact that they seen something on both scans is positive, when you have your repeat bloods that will give you an idea too.
Bleeding can be normal in pregnancy but I would always recommend speaking to the EPU/midwife if you’re worried.
(And keep a record of everything, they’ll ask you everything if you have an appointment!)
Good luck OP.

Thank you so much for getting back to me hun I’m just confused as if they got the dates wrong and baby would be more along wouldn’t there be a heartbeat also confused as to why the sac is a whole week and a half bigger then my baby I don’t have anymore bloods to do they never asked me but I have another scan on the 8th of May to see what’s going on I haven’t actually got a midwife atm didn’t want to bother them if I’m going to lose my baby I thought they might think I’m being stupid so thought I would wait until I know definitely what’s going on xx

It's a fine line between 5 and 6 weeks pregnant and heartbeats etc so it really is too early for them to give you a concrete answer. One blood test isn't enough because there is a wide range of what is normal. Repeat blood test or rescan is the only way forward. To be honest they could have given you another blood test a few days later and checked if the hcg levels were increasing at the right rate. That would have given you more of answer quicker! Good luck, it's a horrible time

Thank you so much for commenting and helping me hun yeah the only thing they said after the test was they would ring that day or the next to let me know what my results were I ended up ringing on Monday myself as no one got back to me xx

so sorry to hear that, take good care of yourself. You will feel better in time but I know it hurts xxx

Hi so I'm currently 12 weeks pregnant and I had light bleeding at 8 weeks. Went to emergency and got checked out and was told everything was fine. Yesterday morning I was bleeding and went again to which they've booked me in for an early scan. Throughout yesterday the bleeding seemed to have stopped but I've woken up this morning and the blood is worse than yesterday. It's kind of like I've got my period. Heaving with a but of clotting. I'm so scared. Waiting these next few hours for the scan is going to be hell but I'm just wondering if anybody else experienced anything like this and still went on to have a healthy pregnancy? Any advice would be appreciated as I'm so scared. This is my first pregnancy.

So sorry for your loss sweet xx

It’s in the spoon thank you hunni i have been through two miscarriages before one in 2011 and one in 2014 so know i will learn to live with what’s happened but the pain will always be there I’m so very sorry for the loss of your baby too xx

Charlotte how long until your scan hun ?hang on in there I’m sure a lot of ladies have been where you are and baby has been ok and thank you xx

Roxy933 I’m very sad that you’ve already been through this horrible pain twice before. I went on to have a successful pregnancy after my miscarriage and I am wishing you the very very best of luck for the future xxx For you too CharlotteD23 xxx

I already have four children hun I lost my first baby in 2011 I then went on the have a beautiful daughter in 2012 and another beautiful daughter in 2013 I then lost another baby in 2014 but gave birth to another beautiful daughter in 2015 and then another beautiful little girl in 2018 and now iv lost this one I don’t know if I can’t carry boys and that’s why iv had so many losses and four girls but it sure feels that way I’m very blessed and happy with my girls but it don’t make it hurt any less also wishing you the very best luck for the future too

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Well four living children and now three angel children I re read back what I put and really don’t like the fact I put I already have four children I have four living children x

Thank you Roxy933 xxx
I’m glad you have your four beautiful daughters to give you happiness every day - I have two lovely children who I’m so thankful for xxx

I know what you mean - cross posted with you - don’t be upset with yourself for not having mentioned your angel children... it doesn’t mean you don’t love them, they will always be special too xxx