Hi everyone,
I went for my routine ultrasound 12 week scan on 7th March 19, and told there was nothing in the pregnancy sac and that I had, had a missed miscarriage. We very briefly spoke about what happens next and the 3 options that were available and when I was ready to make that decision I was to ring the number given. I wasn't told anything more but in all fairness I wanted to get out of the room asap.
The following Monday I rang and made the decision to take the tablets, the lady on the phone told I had to have another scan to confirm the miscarriage (which I wasn't told on the Thursday before). She booked me in for the next day... so the following morning I go to the have to scan and on the ultrasound there was a tiny white mark on the machine. The lady then proceeds to do an internal scan and she informs me that I have a 5 week old embryo (2.2mm if I remember correctly, it's all a bit of a blue) , the pregnancy sac is measuring at 9 weeks and I should be around 12.5 weeks pregnant. After the appointment she spoke with the doctor and they advise to not go ahead with taking the tablets and that I should be scanned 7 days later to see if the embryo grows anymore even though it's a very slim chance.
I am left with mixed emotions. I have naturally gotten my hopes built back up and stupidly reading up online leaving me confused and lost. In one breath I just want it all to be over and the pain of waiting another week is killing me but on the other hand I feel excited that there still hope. I guess I'm here trying to find comfort in other woman who have gone through similar situations before? Please can someone give me some advice? This is my first pregnancy and from the start i have not known what to expect! xxx