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bean22 · 14/01/2019 09:26

I have recently found out I'm expecting again and only around 4weeks 5 days so still very early days. However have suffered from 2 miscarriages and 2 chemical pregnancy's in the past 2 years. My anxiety is so high that I'm going to miscarry again and don't know who to turn to for advice. Does anyone have any tips or how to help have a healthy pregnacy or how to cope with pregnacy after losses? X

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Geekster1963 · 14/01/2019 14:59

I don't think there is anything much you can do to stop miscarriage.

We had six miscarriages before we had our daughter. I remember sitting and crying for an hour when I found out I was pregnant with her, just thinking that within the next 8 weeks I would just miscarry again. I was completely paranoid about looking for blood every time I went to the toilet, I kept thinking I was getting stomach cramps and worrying about not feeling sick, it was horrible. We had our 12 week scan and everything was okay, but I only really started to relax after our 20 week scan.

It is very hard not to be worried about it all going wrong again, and it must be very hard for you. You don't want to get your hopes up and it's hard to feel happy about it. How you feel is normal after what you have been through and that anxiety won't cause you to miscarry.

I wish you the very best of luck with this pregnancy.

Huncamuncaa · 15/01/2019 17:55

Same boat as you. 4 miscarriages and 5 weeks 5 days pregnant. Had a scan today and although everything was fine i burst into tears as scans bring back so many bad memories. Dont truely beleive this one will happen.
Just wanted to let you know youre not alone. I dont know how to get through the next few weeks...sorry no help.

bean22 · 16/01/2019 20:08

Thankyou both for your replies 😊 hopefully with the right help there will be healthy babies at the end of the tunel.. good luck x

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