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Early miscarriage at 7weeks

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StephanieMcD · 27/12/2018 17:06

I really don’t know where to start I have never been on anything like this before, well I found out I was pregnant on the 3rd of December n me n my partner was chuffed to bits as we have been trying for so long :( and then on the 22nd of December I started gettin pink discharge n really bad cramps I foned the nhs n they told me it was normal that I will be fine bhut by the 25th of December I was heavily bleeding and I foned them again and they told me it sounds like I am havin a miscarriage :( n gave me the number to fone the early pregnancy unit bhut they where closed because it was Christmas Day and I have took it very hard as I have never experienced a miscarriage before so I really don’t know what to expect and my partner has took it hard n wasn’t a very good day for him to be told the news as it was his first Christmas without his mum so it hit him hard :( but he was then arrested n remanded in custody n ave never felt so alone in my life n don’t know how I am able to go through all this on my own as I have no close family just my 2 sons :( a feel as if my wee hearts about to explode al ave fone is cry n can’t seem to stop with so much going on, I have a scan tomoro at the hospital n it kills me knowing I need to go do it all on my own!! Has anyone else had to go throw it on there own with no support of so how did you get through it x

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DuggeesWooOOooggle · 27/12/2018 17:18

So sorry for your loss. Please don't struggle by yourself. I went through a miscarriage at 8 weeks - an early loss is still a loss and I still get sad about it now. Physically I stopped bleeding within about 2 weeks. Mentally I thought I was ok but it can catch me by surprise every now and then (I should have been just starting maternity leave about now).

I was given a card for the Miscarriage Association - you can contact them on 01924 200799 or online at wwe.miscarriageassociation.org.uk.

Please call your midwife/EPU again, they should be able to talk to you and give you some advice and support. Do you have any friends you can open up to? You'd be surprised how many other people have been through this too. There is also lots of support on here too.

So sorry this happened to you on Christmas Day, be kind to yourself Flowers

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