hope and how quickly after did you concieve?

[Hopex3]

hi all,

so it is a week today almost to the hour that I got told there was no heartbeat. I had an emotional rollercoaster - 2 bleeds and continuous brown spotting throughout - found out it had stopped growing just before 8 weeks. had 3 scans previously which makes it all the more heartbreaking as was given hope then big bleeds told was miscarriage then good scan then another big bleed etc. so feels sad that was the outcome.

I know not everyone feels ready straight away but I do want to start trying immediately. I had an erpc on Thursday and have a little bit of brown spotting still that I'm hoping clears soon so I can start again. I am just curious what your experiences were? I am taking this experience as a chance to better myself and be the healthiest version I can - getting back into my swimming and stuff like that (well next week - no swimming or baths after 2 weeks from operation) would just be nice to hear others experiences after in terms of conceiving and also what people did to ease some of the emotional pain.

thanks to everyone xxx

I had an ERPC on 21st June after our baby stopped growing at 9+3. I’d also had spotting and bleeding throughout and a previous good scan with a heartbeat.

I’m now almost 12 weeks (haven had a scan yet) and my first scan is on Tuesday. Obviously not out of the woods and will be pleased when Tuesday is out of the way but hopefully all will be ok!

I having medical management for miscarriage tomorrow at what I thought would be 10+5 but baby died at 7 weeks.

Tbh as soon as it's over and done with I want to try again straight away