It's happened again

[patphelan]

I posted a few months ago about a miscarriage. I've been up and down the past few months. I managed to conceive again and today I was 6 weeks pregnant. I started bleeding this morning and had a confirmed miscarriage this afternoon. I'm really heartbroken. Anyone experienced similar? I miscarried in June and now in October. I am scared to try again. I'm 29.

I've just had one miscarriage so I don't know what your going through but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for the pain you must be in. I'm scared to try again after one and can only imagine the fear your must be feeling. Big hugs and I really hope things work out for you.

@patphelan the same happened me. I miscarried in June last year at 11 weeks and this year in April at 5 weeks. I found it really hard both times. Praying for third time lucky and hoping I conceive quickly. Sending hugs xo

Try to get yourself referred to the recurrent miscarriage department of your local hospital if you have one.

FWIW I'm older than you and has two utterly heartwrenching miscarriages and then went on to have a perfectly healthy baby girl. No reason was ever found why I lost the first two.

I don't have any advice but I have been where you are and I know it's the fucking pits. Just try to look after yourself as best you can and let yourself grieve

Im 27 and i have also had 2 miscarriages both at 5 weeks with separate partners. 2nd miscarriage started 3 days ago. I'm beginging to think there is something wrong me, it is a bit of a coesidence?.

I understand how your feeling I'm scared to try again and go through this emotionally pain. I know the nhs says to wait till the 3rd miscarriage to get tested because most women go on to have a sucsessfully pregnacy the 3rd time. I do have hope and trying to stay positive but I can just feel something is wrong. X

I’m so sorry for your loss Op it must be so hard for you right now. Agreed - try and see recurrent miscarraige team. X