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Thinking of conceiving after MMC

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Monty1989 · 02/09/2018 14:06

I had a mmc last week at 14 weeks. I went to my GP for a routine app and she told me she couldn’t find a heartbeat and the baby looked very small for how many weeks I was gone. I had an app at 12 weeks and we could see the heartbeat at that stage. I was told to go to ER and unfortunately had the MC that night in hospital.
I have never in my life experience such loss and hopelessness before. I felt and still feel completely empty inside. I just don’t have any reason for getting up in the morning anymore.
Myself and my husband started talking this morning about trying again and when we might start. We both agree that we would like to try as soon as possible and I was wondering if anyone had any advice on this or would be willing to share their own experiences?
Many thanks

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Lauraliverpool · 02/09/2018 20:47

Hi, just wanted to send you a message, I had a second miscarriage in June, we saw a heartbeat at 6 weeks 3 days then again at 8 weeks at a private scan then no heartbeat at 9 weeks. I felt exactly the same as you are describing, empty inside, hopelessness, I am lucky that I've had my little boy to distract me. Me and my husband are trying again now, I took time to physically recover, waited until I'd stopped bleeding and made sure I was ready to emotionally try again. Sending you lots of love. XX

Trace126 · 02/09/2018 21:34

Laura, I’m so sorry you had to go through all that!
Sending you lots of love and hoping all goes well now that you’re trying again xxx

Lauraliverpool · 02/09/2018 21:50

@Trace126 thank you for your lovely words! 😘 xxxx

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