Hey, sorry all for your loss, I miscarriaged very early into my pregnancy, and just started getting the symptoms this week, loosing tissue, and spotting, I was very confused to why I didn’t bleed heavy while I’m loosing tissue (sorry tmi) I had a bleed 2 weeks ago and got taken into a&e and they said it’s normal and my HCG was only 10, they said come back in 48hours to check if the HCG has gone up which they did come Wednesday to only 15 wasn’t really happy with this so they said come back in another 48hours, I did they, they then raised to 37, midwifes just said sometimes these things happen with slow hcg rising, the bleeding had stopped by then so she said come back in a week for a scan and another blood test ( my poor arms) so I did, got the call later in the day and she said good news it’s got to 314, so then she dropped the news and suggested this maybe a ectopic ( my heart sank) so she said come in on Monday and we will do another blood test to make sure they are definitely on the move now, well come Monday this week 16th July 18 my back started really hurting and I started to spot again and I thought okay I’m bleeding through this pregnancy (not great) anyways went for my bloods, got in with my day with discomfort so just rested, she rang me 15:00pm and said it dropped to 129 my HCG - so I said so I’m misscerying and she said unfortunately you are, let’s check MORE bloods this Wednesday, 18th July 2018 they dropped to 57HCG she said your in the clear of a ectopic but unfortunately your definitely misscarrying I’m sorry, I knew this was happening, didn’t want to accept it! I’m loosing tissue but hardly any bleeding, I’m confused did I have my bleed 2 weeks ago and didn’t know??? Now I have the confirmation of misscarrying I’m nervous and waking up shaking! Everything seem to have calmed down now, ( down below) but my GOD I ache seriously ache! I keep getting a few shooting pains in my tummy, is this all normal, me and my partner come to a decision we aren’t trying again for a little while as this road has been very very rocky for us !! I need my body to heal. It’s hard enough going through the heartbreak, let alone my body literally torturing me more! Someone help does it get better?!!
I’m scared I have to go back into my aniexty calming tablets as I keep thinking the worse, like infections, and septic miscarriage, how will I know when the whole miscarriage is complete! I’m so so scared! I have a 7 year old girl and she’s my life and I don’t want anything to happen to me! Is this normal? My partner is quite supportive but doesn’t know how to handle things very well.. anyone?