I have been trying for a baby for three years and got pregnant only after I gave up on being hopeful. Got pregnant and My pregnancy was accompanied with light, brown spotings which one could speculate that was just implantation bleeding. I however was referred to early scan for double confirmation and scan confirmed healthy fetus with the rights measurements and heart beat at my 8 weeks. Everything looked fineThen one day I had quite a hectic day traveling all over the country. Skipped my meal and had a flapjack afternoon to stay awake in a very boring meeting ( I know it was very irresponsible of me). Followed that sugar influx I had two days of headache, and then sudden reduction in my bread tenderness. Two days later, on my 10th week, I woke up and went to the toilet with heavy bleeding and tons of blood clots. I was horrified to see the amount of blood and was sure it was miscarriage. Went on emergency and got a scan which to everyone’s surprise still detected a healthy fetid with heart beat. They told me it could be just bleeding outside of the sac and that I should go home and rest and that fetus was fine. Went home half happy and half still confused. Bleeding didn’t stop and in fact got more and more and eventually I started to have tissues discharged accompanied with cramps. All these few days while I was miscarying, I didn’t take any painkillers thinking that the baby maybe still there. But eventually follow up scan aftter a week confirmed complete miscarriage. Now having ready many miscarriage stories and spoken to many contacts who had miscarriage I noticed that most miscarriages happen as mmc where the fetus growth abnormality is observed and then miscarriage is followed. In my case the baby was still there even when I was bleeding which makes me feel so sad and guilty that maybe baby was fine and that it was my body who didn’t look after the baby properly so the baby died as a result of it. I wonder if there is anywhere here who had similar experiences where they started bleeding first, but vialble pregnancy followed by miscarriage. And if you didn’t have similar experiences, did you ever find out what could cause such kind of miscarriages as to me chromosomal abnormality doesn’t make sense because scams looked fine on week 8 and week 10. But get again I’m biased and I’m sad after my miscarriage so can be wrong.