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babibell · 07/06/2018 21:55

I lost my baby on the 8th December. They would be due 17th July. I want to try now but when I got upset once about it, I said I wouldn't try till their due date. Would I be disgusting to start trying now?

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53rdWay · 07/06/2018 23:31

Not disgusting at all. Nothing wrong with trying as soon as you feel ready to.

AssassinatedBeauty · 07/06/2018 23:33

Of course you wouldn't be disgusting. It's up to when you feel ready to, which might change over time.

BrutusMcDogface · 07/06/2018 23:35

No, not disgusting at all! You should try again as soon as you and your partner feel ready, and if that's now, then of course that's fine! Good luck and sorry for your loss Flowers

babibell · 07/06/2018 23:37

@53rdWay @AssassinatedBeauty @BrutusMcDogface thank you three so much!Thanks

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3boysandababyontheway · 08/06/2018 07:04

No, not at all. It is natural to want to fill that void. You are not replacing your lost baby, you are giving them a sibling.

Our 4th son was sadly stillborn 4 weeks ago at 36 weeks. We both know we want another baby. I have felt guilty for longing for another baby so soon after my little boy.
We won't be trying for a little while yet. I need to give my body time to recover. I have now had 4 sections.
Don't feel bad about trying again. Good luck x

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 08/06/2018 21:30

Please don't feel any guilt! I've had multiple pregnancy losses and have always tried again straight away, trying again gave me hope and got me through. We got there in the end! Good luck :) xx

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